I've got a date tomarrow

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The person I've had two other meetings with, I really did not want a girl friend. Yet when going out, just for fun she did the leg touch thing under the tabel. That was flirting, I had no idea what to do, to respond that is.

IF the lady is doing such things, that means she is interested, so how would you respond to such tactics?

I brought up the woopie cushion joke I say, she laughed so if such humor is good then I have no worries for topic materials.

Other then that she has no shared interests with me, I do not believe most do.

well you know that one saying? opposites attract..
do you like her? that's the most important thing. Are you happy when you see her?
good luck with your date. I been seeing someone, since 1st Feb but we didn't kiss till 8th March- so don't feel rushed into making romantic moves. If she likes you enough, she won't mind that you take your time and in fact will probably think you're being a gentleman.
Regarding the leg touch, what you can do is jut gently touch her arm(just for a second)when talking or if you are standing next to her -move in towards her and touch shoulders. It may sound silly-but when 2 people like each other they will bridge the personal space gap. But keep it subtle-don't start putting your arm around her or grabbing her hand yet- leave that for later.
anyway, enough of my wittering..hope some is of use.

I'm just thinking of you sc.

Hope all went well.

BeeBee

Good luck sc! That leg touch thing sure is a good sign too.

I will go this evening.. I suppose it takes a long time to get use to someone.

The thing is though, I really do not like the lady. It's not about looks, its about personality, I do not feel that it is a good match. I do not like unpredictable people, though she seems ok, it is just that I cannot relate to the person.

More so, I could care less about the "sexual stuff", such as leg touching and figuring out what to do (though like any male or human sexual things are desired).

I cannot find people to talk to other then servers who ask what I want and get paid to serve food.

I'm not interested in the lady because she is entirely different then me, I cannot find similarities or topic materials.

The computer is for instance like one person, it is all text things on my screen and if relevancy in another social name finds my topic material then information is corresponded.

In person, in real-time it is different. I have no social anxiety, no fear of people and I do not believe I am anti-social.

Mostly I am looking for someone, yes a lady because I am not gay, to cope with the world with. Not try to cope with the lady and all the hidden meanings.

So I am not going on the 3rd date which was supposed to just be a activities partner for things to do, I find no interest in her. Besides I am sure she will find someone good for her and be happy, she is not the one for me.

Mostly this comes from subconscious understanding that I will not become normal, I don’t really want to and of course cannot sustain myself independently later in life. I do not want to be governed by social workers, put in a group home or other such arrangements.

I was sort of seeking a g/f and not just to find someone for the future, more so to do with another post concerning A.S.D and disability. For later in life, when my parents pass.

I just got back from a date a there was touching...

Nothing of perversions, yet to touch another human being from the opposite gender is refreshing.

Not to be perverted or anything, just normally I do not have the opportunity socially to do such a thing.

Same lady, just a night later.

She read about the differences I have, seems to be understanding.

sounds good, sc.