SOME DATING ANWERS: A Breath of Fresh Air

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Ok, I have enjoyed the discussions about the problem that Aspies have in dating, now it is time for answers. The main answer that I think we can all agree on is that learning body language helps.

As said in an article in this website, Aspies trying to find a way to develop the natural communications circuitry that NT have usually fails more then succeeds. The only way is to learn the Science Of Body Language, there is no way around it.

And while you are at it, watch EastEnders and concentrate on their looking Body Language when you have done that maybe concentrate on what they say.

So my best advice is buys some books two at least and my be a video and sit in borders book shop and read the hell out of the body language books, read, read, read read MF, read until your blood turns pink, another body decays until it inside stinks.

If you are good knowledge in body language, what are your experiences? Do you think about it body language when you go out, at work and watch TV?

I think I am better than I used to be, but I am no expert. A good book to read about body language is called How to Read a Person Like a Book, by Gerard Nierenberg and Henry Calero.

Have you considered that a person can have Asperger's syndrome and cerebral palsy? That's me! Therefore body language is an impossibility. It's all doom and gloom for me, then, huh?