How to deter people from "likeing you"?

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I am more aghast that I used "where" instead of "wear"...TWICE


I actually love plaid too but I get mocked by guys for wearing it...

LOL ! !!

I don't shave my legs or pits (in the winter) and I'm pushing 50 and I am quite well liked/loved. But omg! Y'all are funny...

All I have to do sometimes is open my mouth. I have a bad habit of being sarcastic and analytical, not to mention the "get the $#%! ! away from me" look that I don't realizie I'm doing.

Oh my....I didn't even realise your error. Hehe....

Really? Grrrr....you should ignore the stupid boys!

Wear spectacles (nothing deters a man more than a woman who appears smarter than them)
Tell them you're gay

I beg to differ

What?! I don't care if a woman is smarter than me! I wouldn't be intimidated by that! As for glasses, what's wrong with that? Eventually, as one ages, they have to wear glasses anyways. Therefore, not all men would be intimidated or "back away" from a woman that is smarter than them.

Tell her you must be cared for, fed, dressed, washed,
alot of Carole Normals will run away fast.

I can imagine being intimidated by a woman who I thought was smarter than me, just like I would be intimidated by anyone smarter than me, but just because I'm intimidated doesn't mean I'm not attracted.

You said that RIGHT after me....And I'm wearing spectacles. XD

Do these if you're a female who wants to repel off men:

Wear makeup - especially if you have freckles, if you can make yourself look slu*ty that's even better

Get a boob job!

Wear a leather jacket...something that will make you look rough and messy

Act like a dumb bimbo in his presence

It seems I'm doing a lot of these! D:

There's a difference between makeup and massive overappliance of makeup to make yourself look like a hooker. And there's quite a few different kinds of leather jackets lol

The great majority of women Peko's age wear make-up. The question is more how much rather than whether they have it. Even then I don't think looking (or even acting) like a doll puts all the guys off, as far as I can tell some people are into that.

At the end of the day, unless you do something like make yourself smelly that would give you more than you bargained for, there's no reliable way to put off men. Many of the things that have been suggested would put some men off and make others more interested.

It's creepy but for some reason, I am attracting alot of guys without wearing any makeup at all. I have alot of freckles and apparently it's considered an attractive feature these days. I'm getting super sick of boys being attracted to me for this. They say it makes me look cute and I'm sick of it. I'd rather look like a slut and scare a majority of potential suitors away then to wear no makeup and be completely swarmed and harrass by men everyday. That is just me though

Behave like (removed - M.)
Look like you're either learning disabled or homeless.
Gain weight.