MJackson, you sound upset. Is there a particular situation that caused this?
IMO, the real reason we put up with each other is because we're descended from people crazy enough to put up with each other long enough to have us. Therefore we have (mostly) the same genetic and cultural programming as our ancestors.
Women are just as clueless as men, and ask themselves pretty much the same questions. They don't know why they like us, don't know what they want us for, and they think we don't like them. Dating is hard for everyone, and it's easy to blame the other gender (if you're not gay). Seriously, spend some time reading women's threads in dating forums, and you'll see it too. Funnier still, read gay and lesbian threads - they're even upset at their OWN gender!
MJackson wrote:
But so many families tend to exclude the black race from marriage. But include the white race. I believe this is because people want to get pass in society. They may not like white people, but white people will give them that up in status.
Most people do prefer dating within their own race for the most part, men and women alike. What interracial dating does occur seems to favor black men and asian women, with whites in the middle, leaving asian men and black women frustrated with their relative lack of partners.
Vitamin D deficiency during brain formation (unborn children and early years) is known to be one cause of mental retardation, up to 10 IQ points difference. People with darker skin produce less vitamin D naturally, proportional to how dark their skin is. Could easily be fixed with vitamin D supplementation, if people weren't so afraid to talk about it, but I'd guess this is where the racial stereotypes come from.
Many negatives are strongly linked to low IQ including violence, criminality, income levels, culture, etc. When IQ is matched across all races, most racial differences disappear. Incidentally, whites don't have the highest IQ overall or in any category.
Now can we call off the illiterate nazis please?
Well what makes me upset, since u asked if Im upset, is the fact that I feel like no one really understands me IRL except my friend John. I want to hug, and be held by a person in their arms who understands me, along with having sex with them. since im attracted to women sexually, I would rather have a woman do this than John. John has been telling how how he has been getting sex in the past 3 weeks all of a sudden and it makes me feel bad, because he's an NT, and odds are is the girl he's doing is an NT, and they probably both can understand each other easily.
But here I am, no girl understands me, not even my mom really. My counselor does, but I cant go there with her.
09 Feb 2010, 11:43 pm
