Aspie_Chav wrote:
If you look at my photo, I could not look anything like 20
Ha, you obviously haven't been to my university, I know guys who could pass for 40-year olds even more than your avatar (but then we're talking 'bout the bald, bellied types.).
But I figured that you were a student ('in my class') and she was older ('she looks younger'). But the opposite makes indeed more sense, judging the issue with 'overprotective parents'.
But going back to the main topic, IgorStop said some pretty good things. If you and your girlfriend can both truthfully agree that a) she's mature enough to know her own mind and b) you'll be willing to stand up against the prejudice that is very likely to rise (not only from her parents, but also from other people that are close to you two) besides the current chemistry you guys have, there's a base for a longterm relationship. If you can keep that up, the age gap will indeed disappear as time goes by.
How to deal with the parents is not for me to say, I don't know them. But in any case, I don't think it will be productive if you push the age gap in their face right away. I'd keep it on the downlow for a while so that you and your girlfriend can develop/explore your feelings for eachother (She doesn't have to lie to her folks, but shouting it from the rooftop could be a signal for her parents to break things off instantly.). If things go positive, you'll stand stronger against her parents, should they oppose.
But as said, dealing with prejudice isn't the highest priority; developing/exploring the relationship is. I wish you the best of luck with that, and hope that things will eventually go smoothly for you guys.