I cannot stand NT children they are too much for me!!

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I am an adolescent Aspie girl I just cannot take them anymore! I am always laughed at for some reason and made fun of. Im awkward and have an excessive amount of trouble with the opposite sex. Even though I am considered extremely attractive amongst most people. Why is this then? I hate and I mean hate many NT girls! They sicken me with their shallowness and giggling. My mother always pressures me to socialize and talk when I don't want to. Anyone in a similar situation? Thanks

You're not alone. I feel the same way. I never did like NT girls, for the same reasons.

NT children are mean and they scare me.

I've been treated like dirt by neurotypicals my age. The males bullied me. The females ignored me.

NTs can be jerks sometimes, but so can aspies.

I quite agree. I don't like NT kids They have no respect for anyone except another neurotypical. NT women?girls are very shallow and I have always been rejected by them when I was younger.

Yup, and I agree with you about NT girls - they seem to be obsessed with acting stupid for some reason, it's extremely annoying, I honestly don't know how they even put up with themselves.

got too much attention from them back whenever. More like neutral. yeah I've run across some idiots being idiots towards me. but most of the time, nope. So I got the general mix of positive and negative, the same way NTs would probably view it. Thats what I call equality I guess...

Just a bit funny that most of the more "Positive Attention" came from women. But I highly doubt it means something OTHER than them just being flirts. But regardless I think NTs need to learn that when someone wants to just be simply left alone, you leave them alone. You don't poke the grumpy bear with the pointy stick.

I was pretty much the same way, until high school, when it ironically flipped. Then the women tried to manipulate me into doing their classwork, while the guys didnt pay much attention to me. So yeah, I wasn't being physically attacked anymore, but the psychological BS was a lot worse, because it leaves no visible scars.

The girls in junior high teased me often, sometimes sexually harassing me (grabbing inappropriate parts of my body to see what I would do).

By the time I got to high school, they didn't tease me, but instead continually asked me "Why don't you talk to anyone?" or "Why are you so quiet?"

That's somewhat beside the point. On the topic of children, I agree with the original poster. Children drain my energy like nothing can. They're loud, irritating, constantly want food, drinks, or toys. It's terribly difficult to tolerate their presence.

I disagree completely on NT kids, I actually prefer them to NT adults. At events like barbecues, while the adults are sitting around having coffee/beer and talking, I'm playing with the children.

Maybe it's my ability to empathize with them and treat them as equals rather than undeveloped sentient lifeforms that makes me so popular with them. I was even asked to babysit a cousin with ADD since I was the only adult he ever played with.

They may be the slightly lesser of two "evils", but frankly I prefer to stay away from both. That's a silly fantasy though, since hanging around NT's is inevitable in most Aspies' day to day life, my own included.

many NT girls make me feel ashamed to be "female" sometimes. i don't know how to flirt and be feminine without feeling ret*d. lisping, batting and hair flinging isn't really my thing.
sometimes NT kids hurt my feelings.

It all depends on age. When I was 8, I got along with 6 year olds better. When I was 10, I got along with 8 year olds better, when I was 15, I got along with kids still. at 20ish, I got along with 17 year olds and people in their late 20s. Never people my own age.

I would rather play with kids than talk to adults also, because I feel like one myself.

But when I have to look after NT kids I get sick of them. I'm not the mother type.

When I was in middle/high school, younger boys and girls would laugh at me and be bitchy or rude nasty or agressive to me on the way home from school, I went to a pretty rough school/high school and often these brats were quite a bit younger than me. I don't miss my school days at all. Sadly, some people never grow up, and they never learn to accept someone who is different.

I was bullied a lot by NT guys & NT girls as a kid. The ironic thing is that now I get along better with some NT teenagers than with adults around my age. Some NT teen girls can be very horrible like in that Lindsay Lohan movie Mean Girls but NOT all are like that. Some are just really confused, misunderstood & lonely. I wish I could find some adult NT women who wer like some of the NT teens. Some teens are much more empathic than adults are; sure they can be really goofy but I think that's funny & cute