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Starfoxx
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08 Mar 2016, 3:34 pm

I know its not really a problem nowadays as much as it was in the past but idk what to do if i am lesbian.... :-s



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08 Mar 2016, 3:40 pm

Follow your feelings?


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08 Mar 2016, 6:18 pm

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08 Mar 2016, 7:21 pm

Starfoxx wrote:
I know its not really a problem nowadays as much as it was in the past but idk what to do if i am lesbian.... :-s

I would say step 1 would be finding out what type of female you'd like to date and then after that figuring out how to approach females-- I assume there are certain "tells" that a female is a lesbian and not straight, you'll need to learn those. Perhaps a lesbian on the site can clue you in on what to look for.



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08 Mar 2016, 8:51 pm

I'm an asexual lesbian myself, and I would personally suggest to figure out what type of girls you are attracted to, and then move on from there. It can be somewhat difficult to determine if a girl is lesbian or not. As for me, I only realized that I was lesbian when I became aware that I wasn't attracted to guys and only liked girls and bishonen [pretty] boys who look like girls.


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09 Mar 2016, 3:19 pm

Raleigh wrote:
Follow your feelings?


^^^. You don't have to "do" anything. Just be you.


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09 Mar 2016, 8:58 pm

LOL....the only problem with lesbians....is that they don't want me! Boo Hoo! :(



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09 Mar 2016, 9:06 pm

^Silly Kraftie! :lol:


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10 Mar 2016, 11:57 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
LOL....the only problem with lesbians....is that they don't want me! Boo Hoo! :(

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10 Mar 2016, 4:24 pm

Lol! @kraftie



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10 Mar 2016, 4:37 pm

Sex with women.



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10 Mar 2016, 4:38 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
LOL....the only problem with lesbians....is that they don't want me! Boo Hoo! :(



Not all straight women want you either, kraftie.



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10 Mar 2016, 5:24 pm

^That's kind of uncalled for.


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10 Mar 2016, 5:29 pm

Kuraudo777 wrote:
^That's kind of uncalled for.


For which, the sex part or the kraftie part? :P



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10 Mar 2016, 5:31 pm

^Both. Sex is yuck for asexual aliens like me.


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10 Mar 2016, 6:27 pm

Kuraudo777 wrote:
^Both. Sex is yuck for asexual aliens like me.

I thought i was asexual. Perhaps i still am but ive never had a relationship with a girl that way so in my view i cant know yet. I dont even know. I like girls but i dont know if i would want to sleep with them so maybe im ace lesbian.