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04 Mar 2010, 6:29 am

She now seems quite happy without my company.
It would seem I am of no use to her any longer.
Of course, her life was harder before than it is now. I had value, once. An unused tool is just dead weight.

How sad.

Next time I'm granted audience, I think I should bring it up myself, so she doesn't have to make the first awkward mention.


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04 Mar 2010, 9:59 am

humph. . .if it has gone as far as you think, don't hold your breath waiting for your next audience with the Queen.. . .


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05 Mar 2010, 4:28 am

I don't have many choices for the moment. There are rights, debts and confidences to consider.


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05 Mar 2010, 5:28 pm

not if you overthrow the matriarch. then she answers to you



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06 Mar 2010, 7:32 am

That's hardly proper conduct. :)

I twirl my moustasche and scoff at your suggestion.


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09 Mar 2010, 9:54 pm

ah! a man of many virtues!

I see you have a vested interest in waiting for another audience. . .
I wish you well, Sir PLA :wink:



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10 Mar 2010, 6:50 am

sinsboldly wrote:
ah! a man of many virtues!

I see you have a vested interest in waiting for another audience. . .
I wish you well, Sir PLA :wink:


*bow*

Truth be told, I owe her much. I am currently still ignored, however.


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10 Mar 2010, 9:31 am

PLA wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ah! a man of many virtues!

I see you have a vested interest in waiting for another audience. . .
I wish you well, Sir PLA :wink:


*bow*

Truth be told, I owe her much. I am currently still ignored, however.



When I was Queen. . .lo, these many years ago, but Queen, indeed to a small but devoted knighthood, I, too, withheld my favor as a notice of My crushing displeasure.

When I deigned that they had suffered enough for whatever displeasure - usually by observing their desperate distress turn to resigned patience with renewed steadfast devotion - I would become charitable towards them again.

I can only hope your Lady is so inclined. :D

Merle



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10 Mar 2010, 11:34 am

sinsboldly wrote:
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sinsboldly wrote:
ah! a man of many virtues!

I see you have a vested interest in waiting for another audience. . .
I wish you well, Sir PLA :wink:


*bow*

Truth be told, I owe her much. I am currently still ignored, however.



When I was Queen. . .lo, these many years ago, but Queen, indeed to a small but devoted knighthood, I, too, withheld my favor as a notice of My crushing displeasure.

When I deigned that they had suffered enough for whatever displeasure - usually by observing their desperate distress turn to resigned patience with renewed steadfast devotion - I would become charitable towards them again.

I can only hope your Lady is so inclined. :D

Merle


Thank you.


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10 Mar 2010, 8:59 pm

i still say revolt



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11 Mar 2010, 12:49 am

bully_on_speed wrote:
i still say revolt


ah, but revolt is your game. . .not his. :D

there is no accounting for taste. :wink:

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15 Mar 2010, 2:30 pm

I still send her a few links I believe would interest her. Just a link and a short description.
She doesn't respond, but it's pretty much all I can do.

Since sinsboldly has been on the opposite side of a similar situation, I would like to ask you about how much I risk annoying her with that behaviour.


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15 Mar 2010, 8:49 pm

PLA wrote:
I still send her a few links I believe would interest her. Just a link and a short description.
She doesn't respond, but it's pretty much all I can do.

Since sinsboldly has been on the opposite side of a similar situation, I would like to ask you about how much I risk annoying her with that behaviour.


now we seperate the men from the boys.
There is only one way to touch her.
Send her actual flowers, lovely, fresh something she would like and of obvious quality. If it is of quality you don't have to send many. This is not to impress her with generousity, it is a token, only.

A simple note that says

"One may repay the gift of gold,
but dies in debt to those who are kind"
with your signature.

then it is truly up to her, but you have sealed yourself forever as a man of substance, of passion and a man that cares. Even if she never contacts you again, she will always know you are a stand up guy (god människa, sann människa).

Merle



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15 Mar 2010, 9:23 pm

REVOLT!! !! !! !! !! !! !! STORM THE CASTLE!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! ! TAKE THE HORSES AND PILLAGE THE WOMEN!! !! !! !! !!



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15 Mar 2010, 10:24 pm

bully_on_speed wrote:
REVOLT!! !! !! !! !! !! !! STORM THE CASTLE!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! ! TAKE THE HORSES AND PILLAGE THE WOMEN!! !! !! !! !!


again, that is your game, not his. . .



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16 Mar 2010, 4:38 am

sinsboldly wrote:
PLA wrote:
I still send her a few links I believe would interest her. Just a link and a short description.
She doesn't respond, but it's pretty much all I can do.

Since sinsboldly has been on the opposite side of a similar situation, I would like to ask you about how much I risk annoying her with that behaviour.


now we seperate the men from the boys.
There is only one way to touch her.
Send her actual flowers, lovely, fresh something she would like and of obvious quality. If it is of quality you don't have to send many. This is not to impress her with generousity, it is a token, only.

A simple note that says

"One may repay the gift of gold,
but dies in debt to those who are kind"
with your signature.

then it is truly up to her, but you have sealed yourself forever as a man of substance, of passion and a man that cares. Even if she never contacts you again, she will always know you are a stand up guy (god människa, sann människa).

Merle

Sounds like good advice. I believe it would only spook her, though. She is not very good at accepting gifts, and some similar actions in the past have made her feel bad. I don't know if I can in good conscience assert myself as a "man of substance" at the expense of her comfort. Also, I am afraid of upsetting her.

I will keep your advice in mind. I might yet use it if there is no improvement.


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