Another body language thread....

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Lazenca_x
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31 May 2010, 3:55 pm

Ok here I was talking with a friend of mine when this girl, who knew my friend, comes over. As she talks to my friend, I notice that she was getting closer and closer to me. I instinctively pulled back! After she left, my friend tells me that she was interested in me based on her body language! I completely missed another social cue. Has something like this ever happened to you?



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31 May 2010, 3:57 pm

Lazenca_x wrote:
Ok here I was talking with a friend of mine when this girl, who knew my friend, comes over. As she talks to my friend, I notice that she was getting closer and closer to me. I instinctively pulled back! After she left, my friend tells me that she was interested in me based on her body language! I completely missed another social cue. Has something like this ever happened to you?


Call her!



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31 May 2010, 4:11 pm

I don't have her number....and she now has a boyfriend :(



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31 May 2010, 5:16 pm

I did that once.
Seemed obvious to me at the time, but she was smoking and asking me all kinds of weird questions and was apparently super interested but I had to buy some records.



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31 May 2010, 5:24 pm

ursaminor wrote:
I did that once.
Seemed obvious to me at the time, but she was smoking and asking me all kinds of weird questions and was apparently super interested but I had to buy some records.


I'd be alot further away if that was the case near me :oops:



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31 May 2010, 6:30 pm

Lazenca_x wrote:
I don't have her number....and she now has a boyfriend :(


seems she found what she was looking for. :D



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04 Jun 2010, 2:21 pm

People have told me all my life that this one or that one is interested.I miss it most of the time unless they are totally in my face.Which is unfortunate cuz that's flattering but I wish I could pick up on the subtler ones.



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04 Jun 2010, 2:22 pm

People have told me all my life that this one or that one is interested.I miss it most of the time unless they are totally in my face.Which is unfortunate cuz that's flattering but I wish I could pick up on the subtler ones.



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04 Jun 2010, 2:25 pm

Google search "body language project". It's an Ebook full of pictures and text explaining how to read body language. It's an excellent resource and is very clear and concise.



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04 Jun 2010, 2:50 pm

Thanks,I'll try it.