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01 Jun 2010, 12:36 pm

I thought I would mention this site, and also ask for opinion on the materials in it. If the name doesn't give you a clue it's a website with articles and videos (and a flash game!) on how to attract and seduce women.

Hopefully, this stuff can help some people, poke around and have a look at the articles:
Seduce in Seconds home page

I was especially amazed by this video, where the guy behind the site manages tokiss a female, wich he never had seen before, in under 12 minutes

What do you people (especially the females ;) ) think about the material on the site?



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01 Jun 2010, 12:58 pm

Well, it would never work on me. The moment a man asked me what my porn star name was I'd see a big flashing sign above his head saying, "this guy's a kn.b." And if someone flat out asked me what my number was I'd say "I don't give my phone number to strangers."

I suppose this might work on naive younger women, or maybe it's just that it would work on NT's, but I've never once given my phone number to someone I only just met, nor can I imagine any of these techniques working on me. In fact, I'd be very offended if anyone did try them on me. Watching this just made me feel queasy.

But obviously these techniques do work on some women. All I can say is you'd be trawling the shallow end of the gene pool if your dates came from this demographic.



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01 Jun 2010, 1:05 pm

I don't want to seduce anyone.


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01 Jun 2010, 1:19 pm

I think this would work more with women who are not on the Spectrum.

With me, I know that if a stranger guy tried to touch me, I'd probably react really badly (as in almost broken bone badly). I have to know a guy before I'm interested and there's absolutely no chance for a stranger guy when I'm in a relationship (as I am now and have been for the past five years).



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01 Jun 2010, 2:30 pm

It's probably a bunch of charlatan BS like most PU theory products. I suspect that video isn't real given how you'd imagine that the woman would get creeped out by the "hidden" camera man constantly following the two of them everywhere. On top of that, the audio is so perfect for both of them. How? Do they both have mics?

This isn't that hard with the right girl, btw. 'Skill' in quickly seducing girls is just knowing which ones are up to it. Also, LOL @ how they keep labeling with "push" or "pull" as if it even matters. He could've gone in there being friendly with very little teasing and still gotten that girl if it was even real to begin with.



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01 Jun 2010, 8:40 pm

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That could create some really awkward situations in public places. :?


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01 Jun 2010, 8:42 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol:


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01 Jun 2010, 9:59 pm

mgran wrote:
Well, it would never work on me. The moment a man asked me what my porn star name was I'd see a big flashing sign above his head saying, "this guy's a kn.b." And if someone flat out asked me what my number was I'd say "I don't give my phone number to strangers."

I suppose this might work on naive younger women, or maybe it's just that it would work on NT's, but I've never once given my phone number to someone I only just met, nor can I imagine any of these techniques working on me. In fact, I'd be very offended if anyone did try them on me. Watching this just made me feel queasy.

But obviously these techniques do work on some women. All I can say is you'd be trawling the shallow end of the gene pool if your dates came from this demographic.


Yeah, they work on the shallow end of the gene pool for sure. Part of my frustrations with women lie in how this is how I meet most of the women I date and they're mostly these kinds of extremely sexual (not just horny [ain't nothing wrong with that, haha], but rather alternative sexuality, which starts to get weird), insecure, and very shallow women. It's certainly possible to meet some amazing women doing this kind of thing, but more often than not, the women you can get through pickup are just drawn to shiny things.



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01 Jun 2010, 10:22 pm

when i realize that a guy i hardly know is trying to seduce me, i freeze up and feel somewhat terrified. i don't know why.



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02 Jun 2010, 12:09 pm

roadGames wrote:
I suspect that video isn't real given how you'd imagine that the woman would get creeped out by the "hidden" camera man constantly following the two of them everywhere. On top of that, the audio is so perfect for both of them. How? Do they both have mics?

I can see you point, now that I really look into it. But to be fair, the audio is much worse on most of his other videos.

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This isn't that hard with the right girl, btw. 'Skill' in quickly seducing girls is just knowing which ones are up to it. ... He could've gone in there being friendly with very little teasing and still gotten that girl if it was even real to begin with.

Your first statement makes sense, but I don't belive your last one. In my experience, beeing friendly is obviously a great way to make friends, but not a good way to create attraction. I think if you are talking friendly, and not hitting on someone, your chances to attract him/her are very low. Belive me, I have made a lot of "just friends" by beeing that, just friendly, and to this day never had any real romatic contact.



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02 Jun 2010, 1:15 pm

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02 Jun 2010, 3:58 pm

What does "Seduce" mean :?: For some rezone my mind processes that word to mean something similar to a form of manipulation. Does it involve wearing clothing I usually don't wear, doing things I normally don't do, & saying things I do not believe :?


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02 Jun 2010, 5:03 pm

nick007 wrote:
What does "Seduce" mean :?: For some rezone my mind processes that word to mean something similar to a form of manipulation.


That's precisely what it means: in this case, the seducer is manipulating someone for the purposes of having sex. In some cases, others will seduce for power or money. It really does just boil down to manipulation...



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02 Jun 2010, 6:08 pm

A good number of the people in some contexts (e.g. sitting around at a bar, esp. alone, with wandering eyes and flirtatious body language, which is easy enough to pick up on if you look) are just looking for a quick lay. If you can pick those people out well enough, this pretty well describes most of the rest of the endeavor:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBVuAGFcGKY[/youtube]

I believe I actually saw that first somewhere else in this forum, but it's still very appropriate. xP

Although, I doubt I would ever engage in this. I'd be altogether too uncomfortable doing that kind of thing with a total stranger. 8O


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02 Jun 2010, 8:12 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
nick007 wrote:
What does "Seduce" mean :?: For some rezone my mind processes that word to mean something similar to a form of manipulation.


That's precisely what it means: in this case, the seducer is manipulating someone for the purposes of having sex. In some cases, others will seduce for power or money. It really does just boil down to manipulation...


I don't see using seduction skills to get a potential partner intrested in you as any more manipulative than using other social skills to get a potential friend intrested in you

It all comes down to responsability, the technuiqes are not evil themselves. If you are not actually interested in the person you are seducing and only doing it for personaly gain you are an ass-hole. But the same goes for friendships, if you are not actually interested in the person you are befriending, but using friendship only for personal gain you are also an ass-hole.



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02 Jun 2010, 8:23 pm

Nope, would not remotely work on me ! I am attracted to who a person is and therefore someone hitting on me like that has to date always been turned down. And no if someone I had got to know asked me out wearing y fronts I would also say no (before you ask) but was funny.