Brianruns10 wrote:
And even if I COULD FIND a number for her, I'm really hesitant to use that option, unless she gives it to me (handwritten, or business card, etc), because it just feels stalkerish, like I'm crossing a threshold of privacy...is she just going to wonder, "How'd this guy get my phone number?"
Can i be straight with you?. Most girls expect guys to ask them for their phone number. Like yourself I used to have my doubts when asking a girls phone number, however after a long period of time during which no girl gave me their number I figured I had to make an effort if I wanted a girls number, and guess what most girls I have asked for their number didn´t have any problem and they just gave me their number.
I have similar doubts when asking for an email etc, thats why I preffer facebook and such things. You only need to find out her name- surname and you can just add her(somehow most nts dont fins this saltkish.
You could just ask for her number on your next email if she answers back this one. Just try to make an appointment/date/coffee/whatever and ask her for her number under the pretext that one of you might have some problems and it would be better if you exchanged your phone numbers