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16 Aug 2010, 12:19 am

with a really hot gal i got introduced to.

she was the girl that my best friend's girlfriend's friend introduced me to. [as posted in my last thread on the love and dating thing 'oh you have a boyfriend']

shes really intresting, and im not sure if it will go anywhere, but it would be nice to hang ut one on one for a dinner with her regardless.

im actually painting her and the other gal i was introduced to, so thats...intrestinng

thoughts? suggestions? comments?



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16 Aug 2010, 2:08 am

thats good that you got one. how did you go about it all?



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16 Aug 2010, 2:32 am

I wish you the best of luck but don't set your hopes to high just yet. It's normal for you two to not be as compatible as you both hoped, and for ASD people, it's normal to blow it really badly sooner or later. So enjoy the moment and work out any possible future together later.


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16 Aug 2010, 5:44 pm

John_Browning wrote:
I wish you the best of luck but don't set your hopes to high just yet. It's normal for you two to not be as compatible as you both hoped, and for ASD people, it's normal to blow it really badly sooner or later. So enjoy the moment and work out any possible future together later.


well, gee, so optimistic of you.



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16 Aug 2010, 5:56 pm

Just relax have fun with her.
Good luck. :)


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16 Aug 2010, 8:13 pm

Zara wrote:
Just relax have fun with her.
Good luck. :)


Relax, balance the conversation and look her in the eyes now and then, girls love eye contact (but don't force it just do it during conversation), looking in to someones eyes is a deep and sensual way of contact.

HAVE FUN FUN FUN, BE YOUR SELF :cheers:


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17 Aug 2010, 4:34 am

SoulcakeDuck wrote:
Zara wrote:
Just relax have fun with her.
Good luck. :)


Relax, balance the conversation and look her in the eyes now and then, girls love eye contact (but don't force it just do it during conversation), looking in to someones eyes is a deep and sensual way of contact.

HAVE FUN FUN FUN, BE YOUR SELF :cheers:


there is some hearty advice



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17 Aug 2010, 10:53 am

bewarethebob wrote:
SoulcakeDuck wrote:
Zara wrote:
Just relax have fun with her.
Good luck. :)


Relax, balance the conversation and look her in the eyes now and then, girls love eye contact (but don't force it just do it during conversation), looking in to someones eyes is a deep and sensual way of contact.

HAVE FUN FUN FUN, BE YOUR SELF :cheers:


there is some hearty advice


And don't agree with her if you don't, girls like a man who takes a stand and have their own values. It's easy to start agreeing with a girl just because she looks good ( I know I've done it ones or twice). Never sell out, be yourself and don't be afraid to argue with her, but in a friendly manner, don't take it to far, just light conversation where you stick to your own opinions if it ever shows up. Creating conversational friction is a good way to show your strength when it comes to personal chemistry.

Best way to go about it is to show her you are your own person with your own special ways of thought and acting. Everyone is different and if you just be ourself and have fun that fact will surface and become visible to her.

Good Luck dude.


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17 Aug 2010, 1:29 pm

SoulcakeDuck wrote:
bewarethebob wrote:
SoulcakeDuck wrote:
Zara wrote:
Just relax have fun with her.
Good luck. :)


Relax, balance the conversation and look her in the eyes now and then, girls love eye contact (but don't force it just do it during conversation), looking in to someones eyes is a deep and sensual way of contact.

HAVE FUN FUN FUN, BE YOUR SELF :cheers:


there is some hearty advice


And don't agree with her if you don't, girls like a man who takes a stand and have their own values. It's easy to start agreeing with a girl just because she looks good ( I know I've done it ones or twice). Never sell out, be yourself and don't be afraid to argue with her, but in a friendly manner, don't take it to far, just light conversation where you stick to your own opinions if it ever shows up. Creating conversational friction is a good way to show your strength when it comes to personal chemistry.

Best way to go about it is to show her you are your own person with your own special ways of thought and acting. Everyone is different and if you just be ourself and have fun that fact will surface and become visible to her.

Good Luck dude.


very true.

I once heard talking is like tug of war...but not as fast.

you create enough friction for them to want to know you want them, but let them have the slack when they pull...



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17 Aug 2010, 1:56 pm

bewarethebob wrote:
SoulcakeDuck wrote:
bewarethebob wrote:
SoulcakeDuck wrote:
Zara wrote:
Just relax have fun with her.
Good luck. :)


Relax, balance the conversation and look her in the eyes now and then, girls love eye contact (but don't force it just do it during conversation), looking in to someones eyes is a deep and sensual way of contact.

HAVE FUN FUN FUN, BE YOUR SELF :cheers:


there is some hearty advice


And don't agree with her if you don't, girls like a man who takes a stand and have their own values. It's easy to start agreeing with a girl just because she looks good ( I know I've done it ones or twice). Never sell out, be yourself and don't be afraid to argue with her, but in a friendly manner, don't take it to far, just light conversation where you stick to your own opinions if it ever shows up. Creating conversational friction is a good way to show your strength when it comes to personal chemistry.

Best way to go about it is to show her you are your own person with your own special ways of thought and acting. Everyone is different and if you just be ourself and have fun that fact will surface and become visible to her.

Good Luck dude.


very true.

I once heard talking is like tug of war...but not as fast.

you create enough friction for them to want to know you want them, but let them have the slack when they pull...


*nods*


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17 Aug 2010, 10:24 pm

SoulcakeDuck wrote:
bewarethebob wrote:
SoulcakeDuck wrote:
bewarethebob wrote:
SoulcakeDuck wrote:
Zara wrote:
Just relax have fun with her.
Good luck. :)


Relax, balance the conversation and look her in the eyes now and then, girls love eye contact (but don't force it just do it during conversation), looking in to someones eyes is a deep and sensual way of contact.

HAVE FUN FUN FUN, BE YOUR SELF :cheers:


there is some hearty advice


And don't agree with her if you don't, girls like a man who takes a stand and have their own values. It's easy to start agreeing with a girl just because she looks good ( I know I've done it ones or twice). Never sell out, be yourself and don't be afraid to argue with her, but in a friendly manner, don't take it to far, just light conversation where you stick to your own opinions if it ever shows up. Creating conversational friction is a good way to show your strength when it comes to personal chemistry.

Best way to go about it is to show her you are your own person with your own special ways of thought and acting. Everyone is different and if you just be ourself and have fun that fact will surface and become visible to her.

Good Luck dude.


very true.

I once heard talking is like tug of war...but not as fast.

you create enough friction for them to want to know you want them, but let them have the slack when they pull...


*nods*


*fistbump*



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18 Aug 2010, 5:42 am

she cancelled on me. today.

awesome.



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18 Aug 2010, 10:53 am

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she cancelled on me. today.

awesome.


ehh, not the end of the world.

Stay cool.


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19 Aug 2010, 9:06 am

bewarethebob wrote:
she cancelled on me. today.

awesome.


:(

*hugs* It'll be okay. Maybe you can reschedule?



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19 Aug 2010, 11:49 am

bewarethebob wrote:
she cancelled on me. today.

awesome.


Maybe she's busy or has an emergency :shrug: . She might have a reason why she cancelled you. Heck, it happens sometimes. At least you got a date :wtg:


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19 Aug 2010, 12:01 pm

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i like iranian dates better than californian ones.
even though i am not sure the iranians washed their hands before picking their dates, after i wash my dates from iran, i can be unflichingly sure they are tastier than the ones that come from california.
californian dates are juicier, but less tasty.
iranian dates are wrinkled and dehydrated to a more extreme degree, so their flavor is more intense.
and indian dates are buggered in my mind and they taste like s**t.