meeting an 13 year old aspie girl

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as you know i am an asperger, and i have difficulties making friends so i want to meet some one that is like me, like a friend that i never had before my interest is airplanes ( if it seems odd to you, i dont care i just want to meet an aspie ) theres buitiful girls in my school but they dont undertand me very well so here i am
please reply i want to meet some body that understan me very well

How old are you? This is very important.

I was gonna say, I'd get arrested for that sort of thing . . .

I believe he is around 13. If I told you my reasons to believe he's 13, you would call me a grammar nazi, so I'll just shut up.

im actually 13 yes

im not jewish im just want to meet a girl in my age thats all

The term 'Grammar Nazi' is used to mean anyone that is pedantically authoritarian about other people's speeling 'n' grammur.

The word is pedant.

i did not know that

Be careful what you post, it might attract the wrong sort of people. You should be able to meet someone like you in school, you just have to look.

At least we can be fairly certain about your autism: we are known for our inability to get sarcasm. Anyway, my English is pretty bad: I'm not a fluent speaker.

As for your problem, I wouldn't worry too much about it: many young men with asperger's syndrome only have girlfriends during their 20s. Yeah, I know it sucks, but it's probably gonna be that way for you, too. Just follow PM's advice and look for someone in school. If it doesn't work, don't feel too bad about it: it eventually gets better.

I'd be willing to bet though that the kid is in the same boat I was at about that age. Some girl at school (or more than one) is interested and is probably giving signals that a neurotypical boy could probably read but like me he cluelessly has her pegged as at best a friend. It kinda sucks that society has girls conditioned to not just come out and say, "Hey I like you, want to go see a movie?"