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johnny_the_greek
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18 Sep 2010, 3:29 pm

If you are a single guy, do people usually assume that you are gay?

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18 Sep 2010, 4:04 pm

People assume that I am gay all the time, because I am.

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18 Sep 2010, 4:16 pm

No, people just assume I care.

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18 Sep 2010, 4:42 pm

why couldnt a single guy be happy?

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18 Sep 2010, 4:51 pm

I'm female & people have assumed everything from me being a lesbian to straight to interested in ultra perverse (for me) sex stuff.

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18 Sep 2010, 6:21 pm

I get it all to much.

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18 Sep 2010, 7:19 pm

Peko wrote:

I'm female & people have assumed everything from me being a lesbian to straight to interested in ultra perverse (for me) sex stuff.

^ This. It used to be a lot worse when I was in grade school before I was interested in dating. Now people know that I'm straight, they just don't understand why I'm still a virgin. Oh well, it's a step up I guess. :roll:

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19 Sep 2010, 5:13 am

johnny_the_greek wrote:

If you are a single guy, do people usually assume that you are gay?

People assume I'm gay or they assume I'm a pedophile because I like pop music & I apparently look creepy but gay guys are oddly attracted to it cuz they keep hitting on me

I'm NOT joking

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19 Sep 2010, 6:05 am

Where I live , any single guy who's over 25 = gay.

Even if they're straight like me.

and people here are raised to disrespect gays , I know exactly what homophobia and homo discrimination are.

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19 Sep 2010, 6:12 pm

I'm a girl, I get mistaken for being gay all the time. I've also had rumors go around about it.

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19 Sep 2010, 11:18 pm

the people on this planet need to stop caring about what others are and just focus on themselves. Its not hard.

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19 Sep 2010, 11:22 pm

nick007 wrote:

guys are oddly attracted to it cuz they keep hitting on me

I'm NOT joking

lucky you:roll:

all my life people have treated me as though they thought i was gay, without me saying a word about it.

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19 Sep 2010, 11:29 pm

auntblabby wrote:

nick007 wrote:

guys are oddly attracted to it cuz they keep hitting on me

I'm NOT joking

lucky you:roll:

all my life people have treated me as though they thought i was gay, without me saying a word about it.

then be gay in their eyes. It shouldn't matter as long as they don't abuse you. Let the ignorant remain ignorant as you bypass them in search for truth.

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20 Sep 2010, 12:11 am

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then be gay in their eyes. It shouldn't matter as long as they don't abuse you. Let the ignorant remain ignorant as you bypass them in search for truth.

that was difficult while i was in the army. it's only slightly less difficult while living in the suburbs of hooterville.

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20 Sep 2010, 6:24 pm

No, they just assume I can't get a girl but still want one (which isn't distant from what is).

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21 Sep 2010, 3:18 pm

I couldn't agree more. Gay guys have hit on me more than once, and honestly as much as I'm flattered by it, I'M NOT GAY. In fact, I'm sick and tired of people assuming I'm gay.

Sorry everybody, I'm in a venting mood today.

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