03 Nov 2010, 6:45 pm
The_Face_of_Boo
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DemonAbyss10
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03 Nov 2010, 7:01 pm
Yes. I met my first and only love just over 2 years ago and we began dating instantly. We were together for 18 months before she dumped me on 30th December last year at the start of what was supposed to be the begining of our festive period together, I'd been looking forward to it for a month. I never really got a clear reason why but I cannot hate her and still love and miss her. 
The_Face_of_Boo
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03 Nov 2010, 7:03 pm
03 Nov 2010, 7:04 pm
Why only men? This is a valid question for anyone.
Depends on what you mean by cherished. I'm no longer in love with her. We still talk occasionally. I have fond memories of being completely infatuated with her. That's pretty much it: pleasant memories. She's married now. There's perhaps a tinge of pain when I think about her being with some other guy, but I quickly dismiss it as nonsense.
I'm more upset with the last relationship not working out. That was a clusterfrack on so many levels. 
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03 Nov 2010, 7:07 pm
DemonAbyss10
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03 Nov 2010, 7:12 pm
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03 Nov 2010, 7:23 pm
03 Nov 2010, 7:24 pm
Depends on what you mean by cherished. I'm no longer in love with her. We still talk occasionally. I have fond memories of being completely infatuated with her. That's pretty much it: pleasant memories. She's married now. There's perhaps a tinge of pain when I think about her being with some other guy, but I quickly dismiss it as nonsense.
I'm more upset with the last relationship not working out. That was a clusterfrack on so many levels.
By cherish I mean to remember fondly as a first maybe from childhood...like remembering your first kiss in 5th grade...I don't necessarily mean cherishing your first adult relationship with the sex and everything else...I meant the light-hearted kind of lovin' from your youth....and that does NOT include bangin' somebody in the back seat of your first car at the age of 16. I mean the pink clouds, soft music kind of first love.
03 Nov 2010, 7:25 pm
03 Nov 2010, 7:28 pm
THERE! Thanks Moog! That's what I was looking for.
You're welcome
03 Nov 2010, 7:29 pm
