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Lazenca_x
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14 Nov 2010, 12:41 pm

How do you know if you miss someone? The first girl who rejected me....well, I've been thinking about what could have been. I don't think that is what missing someone is. It's more like regret in this case. I just don't miss people. Is anyone in the same boat is me?



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14 Nov 2010, 1:23 pm

Generally, yes. But, my experience feels like more of a process. When someone I'm very attached to leaves, it's very painful -- with intense feelings of "missing" that person. So intense that I become pretty disfunctional. Not long afterward -- not long enough for comfort, anyway -- I'm like, "who?" No more missing, in other words.


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14 Nov 2010, 2:41 pm

ummm yeah, you shouldn't really tell anyone you miss them unless you two were an item at one point. even then, you most likely should not tell them that you miss them unless you are almost certain they may feel the same way.



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14 Nov 2010, 3:07 pm

Lazenca_x wrote:
How do you know if you miss someone?


They don't bleed and fall down.


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