Men as Objects

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I have no clue why but for the past 4 years I've seen men as objects. I went from liking masculine men, to femmine and innocent men. I like the ones with small bodies and bones, long hair(especially white-blondes they are the cutest!) and pale blue eyes. I see them as being the objects and not women,especially the kind I described. I don't see them as sexual objects, I'm not that extreme but more like stuffed animals, toys, and dolls as well as a companion. They can protect me from other people just not phyiscally, I protect them from physical harm. They take care of me in the best of ways. THEY bake, THEY cook,THEY let me cuddle them and brush their hair. They just look very fragile and in need of protection. Those are the kind of men I want.!

Motherhood instincts in action detected.


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Yeah, you seem like you want a baby, not a man. Or a puppy.

Lol, that's too funny. I think you're seeing exactly what a lot of guys see when they notice that in women (the better half argue that impulse down and remind themselves, like sex object, that its hormonal illusion). Seems like some women think its only 'sex object' - trust me, few guys are really that base.

Careful though; next you might be getting strange fixations to put the NFL theme song on your phone, watch Junkyard Wars or Future Weapons when you aren't watching American Football or soccer, stack beer cans in pyramids on your coffee table, you might even be talking your china doll boyfriend into letting you get a 72 inch TV along with a big satellite on the roof to get twelve versions of ESPN. If you ever do tell him to go make you a sandwich please get it on videotape, we need proof that you did it and that he brought it .

Are these men you know or have just seen? If you don't know them, it can be difficult to associate a real personality with them.

So the tables have turned on us evil men...

hmm... I've heard dancers' say they only thought of men as money sources and nothing else but nothing like what you have said. All though, I have seen couples where the women was bigger than the man. Do you like being physically stronger because you feel threatened by men who are physically stronger than you and you want to be the one in control?

It sounds like you're fed up with how (some) men view women and are trying to get back at them?

I also wouldn't rule out you wanting to be physically stronger because you're not meeting the expectations of people who want their women petite and fragile and you just want to show them that you no longer want to play by THEIR rules. So basically, something like what Taupey has said about you wanting to be in control.

i think perhaps you are uncertain about what you really want in terms of men and love. i've noticed your opinions and ideas have changed a lot, even since i've been on WP.

i don't want to press the age thing, but you are definitely at a time when many people have vast sea changes in their aims/goals/lifestyle/self-image/attraction etc. perhaps this is like the pendulum swinging to the other extreme, and eventually your feelings and tastes will reorient somewhere in the middle.

i had some disappointments with some of the overly masculine types of men around my mid-teens, which really affected how i saw those types of males. i have preferred more sensitive men ever since, but i don't think i ever saw them as objects to care for. that is something i am not sure about. perhaps people are right about the nurturing baby instinct going on!

"You don't love me. You love the idea of me."