About 4 months ago I met a guy on a dating website. He had told me that he was quite, shy, didn’t have much experience with dating. We are both very much alike in our personalities. We chatted for about a month and decided to meet up. Our first meet up went well but I was left with some mixed feelings. I had a very good time and enjoyed spending time with him. But when we had parted ways we walked off and he said “I will talk to you later, probably.” I had written it off figured OK we had a good time but we will just stay as friends. I get home and put up a post saying I had a good time and he responds immediately saying he did also. We continue to chat and decided to get together again.
We live a distance away from each other and he was coming up to my neck of the woods so before hand the idea was introduced that he spend the night. We hadn’t discussed it any further. To make this short we wound up playing video games all night and sleeping in separate beds. I was perfectly fine with that idea and did not ask him to sleep with me. I felt that it would have been rushing things to much. The next morning he gets ready to leave and we hug. I had a great time. I was relaxed and enjoyed being myself and not having to put on an act. But yet I was left with the same feeling as the first time.
We did not talk for a couple of day’s so I had messaged him saying that I had a great time and that I would like to do it again. He agrees and we make plans for me to come down and visit him. We had made plans for two days so we both had decided it would be a good idea for me to spend the night. We spend the day out and about. At the end of the night we go back to his place get ready for bed. We did some flirty play fighting for a little while and when we decided to go to bed he asks me if I want to sleep in his bed. I agree, we lay and cuddle for awhile and things start heating up. I do not feel the need to go into detail. Though I will say we did not have sex.
The next day goes equally as well and I decided to head out early. As I am getting ready to leave I say that I had a great time and would like to do it again. He says to me I know that you are busy and its a long drive. Then gives me a really tight (squeezes the breath out of me) hug and we kiss. Now I am not very good at reading people. I have a hard time making out peoples intentions. I like this guy, but I am not sure what to do. I don’t want to get emotionally involved and get hurt. I also do not want to write him off if something could be there. Could someone please give me some insight on this situation? It would be greatly appreciated.
22 Nov 2010, 11:44 pm
