Should I tell my girlfriend about my secret fantasy/fetish?

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So my gf and I went out the other day and she was wearing a skirt with nylons and boots. I have always had a thing for legs and nylons. Should I tell her? How? Should I say stuff like you looked really great in that outfit? And when we start having sex I may want that stuff to be a part of it. What should I do about that?

Duh! Wait until you have actually had sex a few times before bringing that up.

Like Wombat said. But, you can tell her that you did like her one outfit. You don't need to mention that it was a major turn on just that you thought she looked really great.

Hardly a bizarre fetish is it? Pretty normal TBH. When I read the title I thought it was going to be something way off whack!

Oh that's nothing unusual. Don't worry about it.

Yeah nothing weird. But as Wombat said, I would wait till you've actually HAD sex with her before you start talking about things liek that.

not all relationships get to sex

Buy her a nice set of Lingerie, (not for Christmas or Birthday as she knows its really a present youve bought for yourself), she will wear it for you, let her realise the effect it has on you results in better Loving times for her.

No offense, but that's barely even a fetish, if at all.

I know that not all relationships lead to sex but ours is. We've talked about it and it's just a matter if finding the right moment.

as said, women wearing sexy clothes is not a fetish
wanting to see a woman penetrated by tentacles is

that's japanese right? i think there are some ancient scrolls somewhere...

but yeah, maybe wait till after you've had sex *a few times* before mentioning your fetish. i think it's a good idea to do it super-extra-vanilla for a bit first, then introduce different kinds of fun stuff. your idea is not weird or unusual, but i'd get some sex happening first before you start introducing any stronger preferences.

yep, hentai is full of "tentacle rape"