I will never fall in love

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01 Nov 2010, 3:35 am

All of the girls in this world are too much the same, and I'm not gay. I will never get to experience this love thing in this life. I no longer have the emotions for it. When I was younger there were some girls that I would get fluttery over but now it is just gone. It is wild that I could care less. I don't even care about sex either. It really no longer matters to me that I have no one. I wish that I could get that feeling back but it seems impossible. It is no longer a matter of me desiring a partner, it is now me not caring about ever getting a partner. It looks like I wasn't meant to be in a relationship in this life or maybe ever again. I don't think that what we were taught about love as kid is true anymore, it is quite possible that love is non existent. To be honest, Im not sad at all about it. I am indifferent.

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01 Nov 2010, 3:53 am

Look at the bright side. Life is quieter this way.

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01 Nov 2010, 4:04 am

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01 Nov 2010, 5:31 am

I must say, that sounds very sensible and I think that feeling settled in whatever lifestyle you choose is a really good thing. I think that is better than trying to force yourself into a situation where you are not happy.

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01 Nov 2010, 5:56 am

Well at least you now have one less thing to worry about, right?

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01 Nov 2010, 9:10 am

I felt that way for a damn long time...I lucked out and found another Aspie. I can't deal with NT men because they buy sex with presents and flowers and it seems stupid to me. What I found worked is to stop thinking about the BS we were fed about love and relationships because it doesn't work for NTs any better than it does for us AS folks. My husband is an Aspie like I am and we are best friends. We love each other and have kids, but we just kind of bypassed the sappy romantic crap and moved to a comfortable companionship that works well for long-term situations. My best suggestion is to try and find intelligent AS/spectrum women. I have dated NT women and it drives me batshit crazy...I've been monogamous in an open relationship for over a year because I haven't found a woman who is worth the drama. If I can find a AS woman that understands needing alone time and not being a needy clingy psycho then I think I'd be willing to actually put the energy into having a relationship.

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01 Nov 2010, 11:39 am

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

All of the girls in this world are too much the same, and I'm not gay.

No, they aren't.

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It is wild that I could care less.

Couldn't care less. Not could care less. If you could care less, then you care to some degree. If you couldn't care less, then you don't care at all, and it is therefore impossible to care any less. Get it right.

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I don't even care about sex either. It really no longer matters to me that I have no one. I wish that I could get that feeling back but it seems impossible. It is no longer a matter of me desiring a partner, it is now me not caring about ever getting a partner. It looks like I wasn't meant to be in a relationship in this life or maybe ever again. I don't think that what we were taught about love as kid is true anymore, it is quite possible that love is non existent. To be honest, Im not sad at all about it. I am indifferent.

Sounds to me like you're asexual.

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01 Nov 2010, 12:15 pm

Asp-Z wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

All of the girls in this world are too much the same, and I'm not gay.

No, they aren't.

thanks Asp-Z. you beat me to it!

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01 Nov 2010, 12:21 pm

Asp-Z wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

All of the girls in this world are too much the same, and I'm not gay.

No, they aren't.

+1.

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25 Nov 2010, 10:03 am

Love, is the best thing that can happen in life...well, true it's not easy every time, because we do not have the same expectation from each other...but i really thing it worth the try!

In my relationship's experience, I loved, I cried, I was disappointed, I hated, I was cheated...butd the fabulous time I had and the feeling to be loved by someone and to be special to someone...I never regretted any relationship even the worst of them, I learned a lot...

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25 Nov 2010, 11:23 am

yuck I wouldn't wanna date a girl with AS, traditionally people with AS don't like a lot of things such as social crap and stuff
and I love a good party
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25 Nov 2010, 11:24 am

I bet one dollar you will.

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25 Nov 2010, 2:59 pm

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

You might be Asexual, which means not having sexual emotions.
As long as your happy enough it doesn't really matter.
If I were you I would make friends and leave it at that,
Good Luck

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25 Nov 2010, 4:42 pm

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

Love is an ephemeral and fleeting set of chemically induced feelings that describes a number of things. Early on it is about lust (for men) and social status (for women) and as time rolls on it is used to describe what two people have when they realize they are codependent and without any other options.

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25 Nov 2010, 4:43 pm

If you never fall in love you will be a far happier person in the long term. Devote your time to something more useful.

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