Anyone here just want a girl for affection?

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21 Dec 2010, 10:28 pm

Anyone here want a girl just for like affection purposes you know? Someone to love and stuff?


I do.



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21 Dec 2010, 10:32 pm

Crap, I am depressed.



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21 Dec 2010, 10:32 pm

Isn't the only other option for sex? I would think that most people who are into the ladies want someone to love and care for. I guess someone could want arm candy, which would be a third reason, but I think this would interrelate with sex. Now I'm going to be running scenarios in my head to try to find more.

Fortunately, I think most women want to be loved as well so you are in a good place.



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21 Dec 2010, 10:35 pm

re OP: yes. And I've just figured out that all I need in life is a cat



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21 Dec 2010, 10:43 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
Anyone here want a girl just for like affection purposes you know? Someone to love and stuff?


I do.


Yes. I can get sex any time I want as long as I have money...a relationship/love is much more elusive.



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21 Dec 2010, 10:51 pm

SadAspy wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
Anyone here want a girl just for like affection purposes you know? Someone to love and stuff?


I do.


Yes. I can get sex any time I want as long as I have money...a relationship/love is much more elusive.



All I want is a decent looking girl with a big heart. Is that REALLY so much to ask for?



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21 Dec 2010, 10:55 pm

I used to want just that, but now it's more along the lines of a girl that is also a friend. Of course, if I wanted it a little more, I might go out and get it. I never wanted lots of friends. I'm usually at my happiest when I have one female friend and 3 or 4 guy friends. That's what I have now.



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22 Dec 2010, 1:12 am

Get a dog. The dog will love you unconditionally. The dog will not care about your inappropriate use of non-verbal language, but will probably notice when you have food in your pocket. Dogs don't care if you socialize too much or not enough, and dogs don't like bars or parties any more than the average aspie. You don't have to guess what the dog is feeling as long as you have the ability to see his tail.

I'm sort of joking, but I do love dogs. They make great companions. I love cats too, but they don't always make the best companions as some of them are very solitary and distant and don't like to be touched.



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22 Dec 2010, 1:17 am

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All I want is a decent looking girl with a big heart. Is that REALLY so much to ask for?

Now you're starting to sound like me... Unfortunately, all the girls with big hearts have seemingly found guys with equally big hearts that my 3-sizes-too-small could never hope to match. Nor should I want to intervene in those relationships since they seem so happy together, yet at the same time it makes me feel so lonely...



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22 Dec 2010, 1:18 am

just steal Christmas, then give it back
everyone will have no choice but to accept you
or flay you alive...I've not tried it myself yet



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22 Dec 2010, 2:12 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
Unfortunately, all the girls with big hearts have seemingly found guys with equally big hearts that my 3-sizes-too-small could never hope to match.


Have you seen the movie As good as it gets? if so, you know when Melvin tells Carol she makes him want to be a better man? when it actually happens sometimes, and when it does it makes your heart grow a few sizes.

That is assuming that your heart really is 3 sizes too small lol which it probably isn't, but I know what you mean :)


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22 Dec 2010, 2:27 am

Zur-Darkstar wrote:
I love cats too, but they don't always make the best companions as some of them are very solitary and distant and don't like to be touched.


Reminds me of this book:

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22 Dec 2010, 6:00 am

ApsieGuy wrote:
Anyone here want a girl just for like affection purposes you know? Someone to love and stuff?


I do.


Yes.



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22 Dec 2010, 10:18 am

I want one to mow my lawn.


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22 Dec 2010, 10:23 am

Kilroy wrote:
just steal Christmas, then give it back
everyone will have no choice but to accept you
or flay you alive...I've not tried it myself yet


I don't think real people are as naive as those who people (I almost just said the who, which would make no sense in this context at all), and if I went and stole their decorations, they'd just file a police report that would eventually lead me to getting arrested on multiple counts of breaking and entering, and they'd just go off and buy new decorations...



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22 Dec 2010, 10:25 am

Moog wrote:
I want one to mow my lawn.


I'll do it for you. 8)