Why I like Aspie girls the best!

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Many of you out there, have dated 'Aspie girls' (and the like) and after dating a few (as I've had more than one GF with AS) I thought that I'd like to tell you all about my reasons why I (mostly) only date girls with AS.

Now I bet that some of you are thinking that it's a matter or 'beggar's can't be choosers' (as if having AS and being a girl is a bad thing) but although it used to be a contributing factor up until a while back. I've come to the conclusion that I think that (good looking) Aspie girls turn me on.

Although some of you out there would never date a girl (or guy) with AS (for reasons of your own, of which I'll respect) it must be pointed out that many of the girls that I know that have 'learning conditions' (I much prefer to use that term as it sounds less demeaning that 'disability' as having AS does not always in pair your ability to live a normal life, not everyone will like you for it, but then some one who's a bigot could dislike you for ANY reason) but I digress, here I'm going to talk about Aspie girls and why I like them.

Now I know that some of you out there will have had bad experiences with fellow Aspies (of both genders) but as you know, you'll get good people and bad people in all works of life and so that is the main reason why we start to have 'types' not just types of partner you understand, but I mean types of person that you get on with the best.

So then, what is my type of girl then? I'm sure that you'll all have your own ones (if any of you out there have a type of guy then feel free to comment as well) but here is my type...

My type is...

1. Good looking, or at least willing to under go beauty treatment if need be.

2. Friendly, even if this may mean she's a little 'clingy' at times I'm ok with that anyway

3. Playful and childlike.

4. Laid back.

5. Loving.

6. Likes to be looked after, as I'm VERY protective of those I care about I much prefer a girl who enjoys that kind of lifestyle

7. Thinks that I'm the best guy on Earth worships the ground I walk on and hangs onto my every word (Well why not? Even if she's not 'needy' I like to think myself a nice guy so I'm sure that she'd feel that way sometimes)

8. Stays in most days, and no I'm not some kind of sexist pig that thinks that women should stay at home, as I like to stay in a lot, I like girls who feel the same way.

9. Is a good listener, as I do like to talk a lot.

10. Will stand by me though thick and thin

11. Is a romantic

Please do not think that this is a dating article, (I've got one on Aspie Affection, and also a number of others on other sites) as I was only trying to put forward MY views on my 'perfect' (or rather type) of woman.

Goodbye Till Next Time

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Last edited by Tim_Tex on 27 Jan 2011, 11:48 am, edited 1 time in total.

ouch.

I don't think those are common aspie female qualities. Many of us are quite independent and actually need a lot of time to ourselves.

I will agree with you that we are pretty awesome in general, though.

This is the worst sort of degrading stereotyping if you ask me. A lot of this stuff isn't even common Asperger's stuff. Congratulations on finding several AS girlfriends - I can see why none of them ever stuck it out.

All I can say is: I have yet to find someone like this, if they exist.

Also how do people meet others with AS? Only dating sites, or what?

Not to sound like a jackass here since this is your opinion/likes ... but that list reads to me like you want a pet not a gf.


...then again, there are girls that love being pets so there is hope for you

Booster, you continue to make me shake my head in wonder. I think your posts are very funny when taken as comedy (as I assume they are meant to be).

Last edited by Moog on 27 Jan 2011, 1:07 pm, edited 2 times in total.

For entertainment I just scrolled through a few of his recent posts. Shaking my head as well.

I suspect he's actually just having a giggle. Bad taste comedy. Like Ricky Gervais or something. Interesting that you use the word entertainment there. Some kind of resonance.

Either that or he is very "differently functioning". I am having a hard time telling the difference lately.

Nope! I was thinking 'you're a creeper', actually!

This is a troll, guys. Let's not feed him?

268 posts over two years is a lot for a troll.

Me too; having followed a number of his threads. I think either he's having a laugh/trolling or has some very serious issues. I won't say what my real opinion is as it would be against the site rules and I'd have to ban myself.

I thought he was being serious.

Thanks, for the comment as it happens I do know a one or two girls that regard independence (as it is seen by most people anyway) as not being too big a deal, so they'd have no (or very little) issue with this...

Not always the most common female Aspie traits I know but I have even known some who were willing to 'adapt' a little to their boyfriends.

Although I haven't asked this of anyone, I'm fine with it just so long as both party's are willing to do so.

And yes I will add that I've been having a giggle with some of the things I've said lately, although that said a lot of the stuff I've put down as a whole was sincere and honestly meant (unless it was one of the times I was venting/ranting) this one however I will say is a mix of both what I really think (about the fact that I like AS girls) and humour (some of the wishes are a bit silly) but I'd be overjoyed if I met a girl who was like that or was willing to 'adapt' as has happened in the past abet of her OWN prerogative as one time I knew a girl who got it into her head that she should act like Princess Jasmine from Disney's 'Aladdin' (if I remember correctly) for her bf (in this case it wasn't me a;though around the time I did have a GF who worshipped the ground I walked on)

Lastly yes I'll agree that it is true that most Aspie women like to be independent (I once knew one who was VERY much this way, who I did get along with very well as a matter of fact) I've known some that often 'wilt' when their partners sometimes 'boss' them about and so it's just possible that only a matter of time before I'll get together with someone like that also.

The reason why I'm not always keen on girls who don't want to be 'kept' or be 'pets' is indeed (for the most part as there is possibly a selfish side to this desire as well) and that I'm a little bit open to having a girl adapt for me I've discussed before on some of my older threads one of which which I entitled 'GUYS Do 'kept' women turn you on?' which I hope will answer any questions that any of you guys (and gals) out there h
may have

Just the bulk of of my REAL thoughts on the matter...

Goodbye till Next Time