Am I asexual?

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-I do feel a certain attraction towards certain woman that I do not feel towards men.
-I do not like looking at porn. Looking at half-naked women, on the other hand, seems pleasurable (bikinis and stuff like that).
-I have no interest in dating the women that I frequently see. Those women who are really chatty and talk about how hot guys are all the time. If there existed a woman that exhibited childish behaviour (as my behaviour is childish), then I may consider dating, although I don't really see a point to it, it will more be like friendship, so therefore it would be pointless.
-I would require my date be a Christian, HOWEVER, I think that that has little to do with my lack of interest in dating as I don't want to date Christian women either (so pretty much any women).

Yes. Dedicate your life to the Baby Jesus and follow the example of Paul. Stay chaste. Stay away from women. It was a woman, after all, that tempted Adam to eat the forbidden fruit.

The Baby Jesus will reward you in heaven if you remain asexual for the rest of your life.

No, really.

Dude you ARE asexual.

This is the will of Jesus.

Do not make Jesus angry by having fun with women.

If you do so you will most assuredly go to hell, and be anally tormented by demons for all eternity.

-I do feel a certain attraction towards certain woman that I do not feel towards men.
Ok, so you know you have some sort of attraction.
-I do not like looking at porn. Looking at half-naked women, on the other hand, seems pleasurable (bikinis and stuff like that).
Once someone told me that every guy in the world looks at porn...I don't think they were correct I haven't really sat down and looked at it, but from the bits I've seen I don't enjoy it either. They say that guys get excited visually and girls do by the emotions combined with touch. Maybe you are the latter and not as much visually turned on. Do you like sex scenes in movies? Some movies have sexual scenes that are meant to have an aesthetic quality. Some I like are 9 1/2 weeks, Shortbus, and Secretary.
-I have no interest in dating the women that I frequently see. Those women who are really chatty and talk about how hot guys are all the time. If there existed a woman that exhibited childish behaviour (as my behaviour is childish), then I may consider dating, although I don't really see a point to it, it will more be like friendship, so therefore it would be pointless.
There are definitely women who don't just talk about hot guys all the time. I don't exactly know what 'childish' behavior would be, though. When you say dating, what do you think of doing? It doesn't have to be going to candlelight dinners and moonlit walks on the beach (actually that sounds really boring). For most people it's just spending time together doing what you would normally like to do. Going to a museum, playing video games, whatever you want to do. Some couples have sex/other physical acts a lot because that's what they like; others don't do it that often. It depends on the people in the relationship.
-I would require my date be a Christian, HOWEVER, I think that that has little to do with my lack of interest in dating as I don't want to date Christian women either (so pretty much any women).
Ok...this just confused me. You would require them to be Christian, but you don't want to date Christian women??

It depends on what kind of attraction you feel towards women.

If the attraction is sexual, then you're not asexual.

However, there are other, non-sexual forms of attraction.

OK, just to clarify about my lack of interest in porn and how I get turned on by looking at bikini women...

When I look at women in bikini, I feel this sense that the women are "a bit naughty, but not quite there yet" but when I look at porn, I don't get turned on. I'm like "Oh, you just went all the way". I know, its weird.

I don't care what Christians do

the answer lies in the answer to this simple question...

Do you reproduce asexually ?

If so, you might just be a starfish, able to grow a perfect clone of yourself from a severed limb.
you can verify this with a simple arm-number count.

I think there's a lot of different ways to be, and not everyone's going to have a raging libido. I don't think it's a stop at two stations: "Phwoar, I'd do her" and "I prefer the company of books"; there's a lot of in-between stops. It sounds like you're just at one of them.

I am not an asexual-

but i can understand the concept of being asexual. for me, sex has always made things complicated, i like sex and i crave it. but i think my life would be much simpler if i didn't feel any need for it

You may be asexual. As I understand it, there are different types of asexuality. Some experience zero sexual arousal, some do get sexually aroused but have no desire to have sex.

Are you SEXUALLY attracted to women?
Would you want to have sex with them?
Does the thought of having sex with them turn you on/ do you enjoy thinking about it

Also not all porn makes women look like animals. Amateur porn for example - they're not necessarily doing it for an audience then and are often in a loving relationship with the person they're doing it with