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Last edited by PHISHA51 on 05 Feb 2011, 7:28 pm, edited 2 times in total.

...don't react to her. What I mean is, if she gives you crap, just stare at her like you don't care. It worked for me. Sure, it took a while after that for her to stop, but the seed was planted in her brain that I wasn't going to stand for this anymore, and that I wasn't going to give her the reactions she wanted to continue her stupid little game. Eventually she decided to stop because I wasn't giving her the attention she wanted. Maybe she whined to other people, I dunno, but I didn't hear any more of it.

PHISHA51:
You've gotten waaaaaay too involved in this. This is too much drama for me to read, let alone live. It's very pointless. It's clear that the girl has been used and her emotions were played with by BF 2 after BF 1 was done with her. The rest of you continuing to bug her masked as a charitable action to "rebuild bridges" just strikes me as too self-serving. You're not being honest with yourself about what you guys are really doing. I say you ignore her. Let her live her life and you live yours. Who cares what she says on Facebook? It's Facebook. If you find her immaturity distasteful, then rise above it by engineering your life so that you don't even know her misbehavior exists, much less care if someone goes out of their way to tell you about it. Right now you and your friends seem obsessed with her.

I can't even make sense of it. He said she did she didn't do because she said he did.. brainfart

Has everyone tried plain ignoring her?

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Everything you say makes me more sympathetic to this girl. You're all really preoccupied with what she's doing and seem to delight in treating her badly. It's a shame because it's warped her into trying to get attention in dramatic ways and she seems to think she can't go anywhere else. She's in an abusive relationship with all of you. Leave the girl alone and stop pretending to be a victim. Grow up.

I like this point of view.

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Last edited by PHISHA51 on 05 Feb 2011, 7:28 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Why would I think you're obsessed with this girl if you post on the internet bashing her to a bunch of strangers, divulging how two of your friends have had her, how you alternate between pretending to be her friend and then completely ignoring her, and how your girlfriend will shun friends if they dare speak to her in public? Then you expect us to believe you're the victim here? Yeah, it's beyond me to imagine why the problem might be on your and your friends' side of the aisle.

In my experience, the ones who cry for a reprieve of drama are the ones who cause the most drama. Your depiction of your situation isn't qualifying as an exception to that rule.

Just leave her alone. Stop talking about it. Just leave her alone. I know this is all high school drama llama junk but, seriously, just leave her alone. This means you don't talk to her, you don't hang out with her, you don't have prolonged explanations why you don't talk or hang out with her, you don't talk about her amongst yourselves, you don't post on the internet about her, you don't shun people who talk to her, and you all stop taking turns sleeping with her. Just leave her alone.