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I have a hard time with relationships. I'm in college now, and would really like to try dating more. In high school I only really had one boyfriend experience, and we went on like three dates before we just stopped talking (we went to two different states for college). Does anyone have any advice, for maybe knowing when a guy is flirting with you, and how to keep things going? I know I don't want any heavy "physical" stuff, and I guess I know when that's all a guy wants, but then when a normal guy tries to flirt I don't realize until later when someone says "Oh He was so flirting with you!" or something.

Last edited by never_more on 09 Feb 2011, 10:19 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I'm flirting with you right now. you just cant see it because i'm behind a computer screen!
Nice location.

I foresee issues in users here trying to answer that question. Males here probably have a different way of flirting from most males. Some [asperger males] probably don't "flirt" at all, but may still be interested in you. Perhaps you should try taking some trusted friends along with you when you think you might run into a guy, and have them signal when someone is interested in you. After that signal, you can ask later exactly what tipped her off so you'll recognize it next time.

Last edited by Biokinetica on 09 Feb 2011, 4:17 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Just a tip, don't make the "all men want is sex" generalization.

If you don't want any heavy physical stuff either date religious people or don't date. Normal guys want physical stuff.

Religious people are the horniest around. not a good idea

Sadly nevermore, we're many states apart... otherwise I'd be honored to ask you out.

I think I need Laz to post an 'I dont like where this is going" picture... To the OP, despite what people might say further down this thread, I think you may have a difficult task ahead of you. Maybe you should try using Aspie Affection and look for your area

Yeah, male aspies will come in droves hounding the OP, they're no different from NTs in that respect.

Last edited by dunbots on 09 Feb 2011, 10:08 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Brace yourselves. I predict twelve pages and a lock at some point. Someone will make the wrong generalisation somewhere. this thread is far too juicy

Here is a tip, if he wants sex, have him wait.
If he truely likes you then the relationship will last.

ima noob

+1

but I'm not sure if she was saying that, I think she was just saying that she can recognize when that's all they want. Unfortunately, sex is indeed what most (but not all) men want, so caution is wise if that's not the goal.