How to get a aspie boy to like you?

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08 Feb 2011, 9:53 pm

Okay,I like this boy with aspugers. He already knows that Iike him. How do I get him to like me and ask me out if hes really really shy?

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08 Feb 2011, 9:55 pm

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Okay,I like this boy with aspugers. He already knows that Iike him. How do I get him to like me and ask me out if hes really really shy?

If he's really shy; it's likely he's too afraid to ask you out. You should be direct & try asking him out instead

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08 Feb 2011, 9:55 pm

zayzay123 wrote:

Okay,I like this boy with aspugers. He already knows that Iike him. How do I get him to like me and ask me out if hes really really shy?

Be very direct.

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08 Feb 2011, 10:41 pm

I am an aspie male teenager, and I dream of my crush simply walking up to me and asking me out...
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Maybe you could take a hint from that?

Though if you are not sure if he likes you, maybe ask him about that first.

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09 Feb 2011, 12:32 am

as others have said, be direct.

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09 Feb 2011, 4:37 am

So...you told him you like him...he didn't return the sentiment (I'm assuming)...
why are you still pursuing this, again?

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09 Feb 2011, 5:25 am

you should find out what he likes doing and get into it.

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09 Feb 2011, 3:56 pm

Simple. Become his special interest. Maybe give him a picture of you. If you want to find out if he likes you or to ask him out talk to him in writing. Email or written note would give him time to express his thoughts in the most accurate way. Definitely dont look too much into his expressions and reactions in person. They will tend to say he's uninterested even if he is.

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09 Feb 2011, 11:18 pm

I'm having the same troubles with a man with AS and it's frustrating because I don't know how to flirt and hinting doesn't work on him. So like the others have said to you and me, be direct to the point of being blunt. I'm playing on telling the guy I care for how I feel towards him. I hope you have luck in your situation Common interests also help!

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