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Daredevil-Aspie
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29 Mar 2011, 10:01 am

Aspies naturally gravitate toward more socially relaxed settings. Is this the same for you when it comes to approaching women? Or do you chance walking into night clubs with all the racket and lights?

If I'm planning on meeting girls, I go for public parks. Or big supermarkets during a weekday when there are fewer people inside. If I go into a nightclub (never have), I know that I'll end up getting nothing done because of the sensory overload.

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29 Mar 2011, 10:09 am

Wouldn't know - I never approach women I don't already know. In fact, I didn't realize that people actually did this at all, much less sucessfully, until recently...

Thank you for allowing me to be helpful! :wink:

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29 Mar 2011, 10:10 am

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

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29 Mar 2011, 10:21 am

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

Actually, I could argue against that. But I'll spare you. :lol:

Besides my classes, the best conversations with strangers that I have had have been in the lab where I work. I mean, there's common interest/passion there and we're also mostly pretty strange, interesting, at least partially introverted people. I've even had good elevator conversations there. :lol:

In most settings, if someone looks interesting, I'll probably just go up and make some excuse to talk to them. Given, I'm usually on campus, so I think it's obviously a bit easier/socially acceptable for me to approach strangers than for people that are out of school to do so.

Can't really say I've ever gone somewhere just trying to meet someone - I'd be awful at hiding my ulterior motives, for one thing... :lol:

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29 Mar 2011, 10:21 am

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

Most girls have claws and are known to roar or shriek.

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29 Mar 2011, 10:22 am

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

Most girls have claws and are known to roar or shriek.

Well good luck with getting a girl with that attitude...

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29 Mar 2011, 10:24 am

emlion wrote:

Daredevil-Aspie wrote:

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

Most girls have claws and are known to roar or shriek.

Well good luck with getting a girl with that attitude...

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29 Mar 2011, 10:51 am

The woods of Northern Wisconsin. There are deer all over the place. I'm not so much into shooting fowl. Venison is awesome, wild bird meat... not so much.

:twisted:

I'm kidding, I don't hunt - but I do love venison!

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29 Mar 2011, 10:59 am

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

I know. Nice to know that women aren't as "human" as men are despite that I've seen more animalistic behavior from men but I don't want to ruin your lovely delusion you got going here. :roll:

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29 Mar 2011, 11:00 am

Erisad wrote:

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

I know. Nice to know that women aren't as "human" as men are despite that I've seen more animalistic behavior from men but I don't want to ruin your lovely delusion you got going here. :roll:

Exactly. I heard once that women like to be treated like .. uh whats the word.. human beings.
But I think I must have misheard.

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29 Mar 2011, 11:02 am

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

Underneath all the social rules, we're pretty much animals. Despite our intellegence, we want much the same stuff any creature does. Just the dynamics of getting them are way more complicated.

I like clubs actually. It's just pure energy and being forward is expected. The noise and lights help take the focus off social games.

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29 Mar 2011, 11:03 am

emlion wrote:

Erisad wrote:

emlion wrote:

'hunting ground'..really?
we're not wild animals, you know..

I know. Nice to know that women aren't as "human" as men are despite that I've seen more animalistic behavior from men but I don't want to ruin your lovely delusion you got going here. :roll:

Exactly. I heard once that women like to be treated like .. uh whats the word.. human beings.
But I think I must have misheard.

I heard that rumor once too. It sounds totally far-fetched if you ask me. :/

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29 Mar 2011, 11:37 am

*Sigh* Where have all the gentlemen gone...?

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29 Mar 2011, 11:38 am

Lilya wrote:

*Sigh* Where have all the gentlemen gone...?

Not here, clearly. :roll:

I'm sure there's some out there...somewhere.

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29 Mar 2011, 11:41 am

Lilya wrote:

*Sigh* Where have all the gentlemen gone...?

There are many theories on the matter. I'm one of the few that advocates that they died with the dinosaurs when the meteors stuck.

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29 Mar 2011, 11:42 am

wait lets not be unfair.
i have a gentleman.
but it took a lot of training.

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