How are you at getting women at clubs?

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This is more for the guys, but how are you at getting women to dance with you and hook up on the dancing floor? I find it's hard to put up an air of confidence, to be honest, and it's hard to be smooth, but how are you? What works for you?

Not been to many clubs, but its worked out before.

It mainly involves going upto a drunk girl and grinding with her.

People don't think in clubs, they just do. Drunk people are primative.

I'm absolutely awful at it, I haven't been to a club in decades. I can't dance at all (a combination of very poor coordination and I can't pick out the beat unless I concentrate) and small talk is one of those things that I've never been very good at (major understatement). I would usually end up knocking back as many drinks as I could, as fast as I could, and then leaving. That gets old very quickly. It didn't take long to realize that I would never meet anyone in that environment.

Don't go out to a club with the idea that you "want or HAVE to meet a girl on the dance floor", it won't work girls will pick up on that and avoid you like the plague. Just go out there with the confidence that your going to have fun, enjoy the music, enjoy time with your friends and have a few drinks if you so desire. I don't party much at clubs any more but I do get out to one with some friends every once in a while, the guys that "try to get laid" always end up alone, really drunk, and moody while the guys that just go out without that on their mind usually end up dancing with a few girls and having a great time.

I have never really been a fan of just walking up to a girl and grinding on her. Personally it makes me feel like a creeper and even though it's worked out a few times, usually it just a bad situation. If you just go out, have fun on the dance floor girls will come to you and if they don't whatever you can have fun without a girl on a dancefloor.

Never been to a ckub, mind you that I'm 18. But I understand the feeling of being uncomfortable while Grinding. It seems like everytime one of my friends that's a girl that wants me to do at a school dance. Sadly it makes ne feel like a pervetic wacko and that is certainly not a image I want to set myself as I just like dancing with friends of by myself.

I'm not a clubbing kidn of person, so I can't say.

I would honestly rather spend a night in prison than go to a club. The music is loud and horrible, the people are superficial and idiotic and you pay to get in and then pay $6 for a sh***y beer.

I don't like the type of girls that go to clubs. When I hear girls talk about going to clubs I am immediately less attracted to them.

Live music events are a different story.

I've never been a fan of getting women at clubs. There's better ways to get women I think. Clubs are a big tease most of time.

Clubs are far too overcrowded and tend to cause sensory overload for me. I wouldn't advise anyone to go to nightclubs to pick up women, you will find a better quality of girls by going to a library or park. Also if a woman is selective, it's a good sign because girls at nightclubs that tend to be easy usually cheat and the guys who purposely go to clubs to take advantage of drunk women are pathetic.

According to the people I use to go with to bars in my early 20's that I did all right but did not relise I was being hit on. I Still do not know if they were messing with me or not but I did get bitched out by one women's friends when I walked away from her because I did not think she was talking to me. They accused me of being stuck or gay.

I usually have to be plowed to deal with a club, I don't worry about getting a girl or hooking up. It works quite well, I get drunk, dance like a spazz and if some one wants to join me, it's ok.