zen_mistress wrote:
^ How (out of interest)?
Do I have a female or male writing pattern?
I would have to read more of your stuff -- I know I have, but it doesn't leap out at me in my recollections.
It's one of those things that is hard to actually explicitly define -- if I really sat down, maybe I could put out some of the rules, but they would be very gray and not absolute. It's sort of a constellation of things in the writing that make it obvious it's a guy.
Like --
--Statements that seem very masculine, domineering, "how dare you question me"-kind of tone, etc. Mind you, I'm one of the pro-male guys here generally, though I think I split the issues evenly, and I'm not a misogynist (women are wonderful) -- but it just leaped out at me that "this is probably how I sound when I'm being a shouting ass around the house." The statements are also rather terse for a female writer (and yes, I know, guys, especially me, can go on and on, but this guy didn't).
--The "wet through her pants" thing -- yeah, not something I often (or ever) hear other women talk about, unless they are talking about themselves. As someone else above pointed out succinctly, it's not usually a topic for women when talking about other women. For guys, talking about other women -- oh yes.
--Any attraction at all to that Spearpoint/Point of the Spear/whatever site. Out of curiosity, I did track down some of the "sources" in that essay -- kind of dumb when someone uses other opinions (with no facts) as links to prove his argument. That site is just pure propaganda and misogynistic drivel. No facts there, and not a site any woman, whether she be self-loathing or not, would ever go on for any extended period of time. When someone's argument sounds like a sales pitch for an idea, and is very light on facts, that's a big warning sign, btw.
--The name of the profile/account sounded more like a derisive name or a female teacher the guy had bad memories of. It didn't ring true like a nickname a woman/girl would have thought of for a teacher she hated. "Miss" anything is not an insult for a woman, or one that she would have considered an insult -- for men, yes, it does have some negative connotations and memories in the right context.
--And, as pointed out by Bethie -- the profile was remarkably new. Seems awfully convenient, given our choice of topic...
So that's just shooting from the hip. I'm sure others can point out things I'm missing here that were surefire giveaways. I wouldn't be surprised if the guy that posted under that fake profile also was the author of the essay.