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LordoftheMonkeys
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07 Mar 2011, 9:37 am

Do they even exist?


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07 Mar 2011, 9:40 am

of course they do, silly.


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07 Mar 2011, 9:43 am

I'm married to one for almost 20 years now.



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07 Mar 2011, 11:16 am

Yes, I'm dating one.



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07 Mar 2011, 12:51 pm

Of course they exist. Most male aspies over 20 that i know are in relationships, most of them are actually married.


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07 Mar 2011, 1:30 pm

No, they're a myth, like unicorns, and flying pigs :roll:



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07 Mar 2011, 1:52 pm

Yeah, we are in them. We arent particularly good at them (beyond extreme loyalty), but we are in them.



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07 Mar 2011, 3:05 pm

The longest most wonderful relationship of my life was with a male Aspie.


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07 Mar 2011, 6:28 pm

Married four years now - second marriage.


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08 Mar 2011, 12:04 am

I am an aspie and so is my boyfriend. :D


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08 Mar 2011, 12:07 am

One of the lecturers at my uni is married with a son, and he is diagnosed with AS.


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21 Mar 2011, 5:38 pm

Bethie wrote:
The longest most wonderful relationship of my life was with a male Aspie.


The longest most wonderful relationship of my life was with a Aspie girl my first GF



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21 Mar 2011, 5:39 pm

:roll: of course they exist.



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21 Mar 2011, 5:41 pm

Even I've been in relationships... briefly


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21 Mar 2011, 5:54 pm

Sounds like the only Aspie guys that aren't in relationships are the ones who hang out on L&D :oops:



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21 Mar 2011, 6:02 pm

Grisha wrote:
Sounds like the only Aspie guys that aren't in relationships are the ones who hang out on L&D :oops:


Well, yeah :)

L&D doesn't really offer up much in the way of conversation for the married or committed folks. Almost by definition the people on this page are single.


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