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CaptainTrips222
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23 Mar 2011, 12:35 am

I feel like a slimeball, but she seems interested. Something tells me this is going to end REAL bad for me, but I'm considering it.

What could happen? Have you ever done this, or known anyone who did? Is this considered perverse?



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23 Mar 2011, 1:29 am

I don't understand these types of boundaries. Why might it be bad?



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23 Mar 2011, 1:32 am

I would find it icky, as the sister and the other sister.



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23 Mar 2011, 1:44 am

I have never done it before. I dated the sister of an friend. The a relationship with the friend would never occur in order to complete actuate the supposition because the friend and myself are not nearly on the same 'wavelength.' Although, now that I recollect I did have a extremely flirtatious episode with one of their cousins while in the relationship. I think the other sibling might have been bothered or wary when I play back her speech in my head, but I neither initiated it nor encouraged it to anything further.



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23 Mar 2011, 1:45 am

Esther wrote:
I would find it icky, as the sister and the other sister.


Is this statement meant to be a logical joke?



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23 Mar 2011, 1:54 am

CaptainTrips222 wrote:
What could happen? Have you ever done this, or known anyone who did? Is this considered perverse?


It happens all the time and not only with sisters.

Say your best friend (or brother) was seeing a girl and they broke up.
Ok, they were not right for each other, but perhaps you are.



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23 Mar 2011, 2:12 am

If you guys are happy then so be it. Some guys date both the mom and the daughter, and some girls date the son and dad; so I think the sister-sister thing is generally more acceptable.



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23 Mar 2011, 2:13 am

Is it really worth it? Sounds like it has the potential to really hurt your ex. Sounds pretty disrespectful. Will ruin her relationship with her sister too.


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23 Mar 2011, 2:19 am

Stellar wrote:
If you guys are happy then so be it. Some guys date both the mom and the daughter, and some girls date the son and dad; so I think the sister-sister thing is generally more acceptable.


I watched a fascinating video by SkyyJohn2 on that subject. Maybe its best to avoid such entanglements.



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23 Mar 2011, 2:23 am

axeb wrote:
Esther wrote:
I would find it icky, as the sister and the other sister.


Is this statement meant to be a logical joke?


Yes, in a way that I find hard to explain.

Personally, the thought alone of kissing my brother-in-law repulses me (even back when his and my sister's relationship would have been in its nascent stage and had they broken up).

I did work with someone who married his sister-in-law, but only after his brother and her husband died. I found even this strange,



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23 Mar 2011, 3:07 am

I think they actually made monsters to fight godzilla, robot godzilla's to fight normal godzilla, along came red hot godzilla. Does anyone know if they ever had godzilla fuse with another godzilla, to make like mega godzilla?

Because if not, this relationship sound promising.



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23 Mar 2011, 6:56 am

It depends on a lot of things. Did your break up leave you still being friends? Do the sisters actually have a good relationship or is one trying to hurt the other by dating you? Do you live in a small town where choices are scarce (I seen this in my hometown).



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23 Mar 2011, 8:02 am

curlyfry wrote:
It depends on a lot of things. Did your break up leave you still being friends? Do the sisters actually have a good relationship or is one trying to hurt the other by dating you? Do you live in a small town where choices are scarce (I seen this in my hometown).


We broke up when she moved back to the phillippines. The sisters are close as far as I know. I live in the 6th largest city in the US, but it doesn't seem to help my choices one way or the next.



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23 Mar 2011, 8:15 am

It sounds like your ex ended the relationship. Therefore she is responsible for herself. As long as you're not dating her sister as a revenge, you are really doing nothing wrong. You need to be sensitive to both, but go for it. I wish you the best.



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23 Mar 2011, 8:26 am

I think it's a pretty jerk thing to do honestly.



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23 Mar 2011, 8:26 am

i couldn't date my ex's brother.
it just seems so wrong.