Why would you do in this situation?

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rasol
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24 Mar 2011, 4:39 pm

What would you do when a woman you ask out tells you to bug off or to f**k off straight to your face?

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24 Mar 2011, 4:41 pm

never talk to her again?
it's rude and she's not worth it.

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24 Mar 2011, 5:59 pm

DO NOT TAKE THAT AS REFLECTION OF YOUR SELF WORTH. SHE IS A b***h THAT SAVED YOU A LOT OF TIME!

I used to really take these situations to heart, because I didn't know any better. Today, I'd rather know she's a b***h up front than to find this out 2 years later. I don't have time for BS, so I'd thank a girl for doing that.

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24 Mar 2011, 6:15 pm

rasol wrote:

What would you do when a woman you ask out tells you to bug off or to f**k off straight to your face?

thank her for a lucky escape.

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24 Mar 2011, 6:31 pm

I agree, you should thank her for letting you know exactly how horrible a person she is so quickly!
There is never any need for that type of rude behavior.

Honestly people like that often just have low self esteem and it makes them feel "superior" to act in that manner. It's really quite pathetic on their part, and was not caused by you or anything that you did.

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26 Mar 2011, 7:56 pm

I don't think that would ever happen to me? :lol:
If it did happen I would never talk them again?

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26 Mar 2011, 8:06 pm

Gaze in amazement, realize I'm gazing - stop the gaze, bow head. Bow completely, apologize ecstatically, remain bowed and back step slowly with as little movement as possible until out of attack range.

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26 Mar 2011, 9:19 pm

I don't know if you mean in genreal or an immediate reaction.

An immediate reaction I would just say something like "jeepers"
and in general just don't bother with the person in future.

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