Same Hair Color as Love Interest

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Hello guys...

So as someone who's a young adult diagnosed with AS, how important is hair color for NTs?

I have blond hair, blue eyes, and there's someone that I'm really interested in, but she has sort of darker blond, almost brown hair but technically blond. I've heard that NTs prefer the opposite hair color, but does that mean that she'll only be interested in brown or dark haired men? I have other physical traits going for me- I'm tall (6' 4"), slight but moderately muscular, but I'm worried about hair color.

I know that it probably isn't too important, but I want to maximize my chances seeing as I'm hindered enough already by AS.

I don't think it's too important, it depends more on what a persons preferences are but these preferences aren't dictated by their own hair colour usually. Although, I'm an Aspie and you're looking for an NT perspective so I don't know how helpful I am here but based on my experiences, hair colour doesn't matter much.