Need some help with feelings and stuff

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MXH
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24 Mar 2011, 6:12 pm

Pretty much this
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt155654.html
Just hoping to get more responses here besides the ask her out, tell her, etc. I want something that noone has to find out about if possible.

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24 Mar 2011, 10:48 pm

You're way too young to be getting hung up over a girl a billion miles away that more than likely is going to go nowhere. I don't know that for sure, but if you're anything like I was when I was your age, you're already in the "friends zone".

If you're stuck on this girl, you're going to miss dating opportunities happening right in front your face.

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25 Mar 2011, 12:09 am

You'll get over it. I know that isn't what you want to hear, but your experience isn't uncommon. That emotional pain is just somethng you can't always do something about, especially when it's an infatuation and you really don't even know the person well.

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25 Mar 2011, 10:30 am

Its just best to leave things along and force your self to for get about her ive been down that road to its not easy but give it some time you will happy that you did

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25 Mar 2011, 7:24 pm

Maybe im not making this clear. I know its completely stupid and that I should let her go. I want to get over her, im asking how in a way that does not involve simply replacing her with someone else. I am not capable of being in a relationship, and I accept this, so I rather not be in any type of relationship at the moment. What i need help is on "forcing myself to forget her". I simply can't for some reason. And whenever I seem tobe getting out of it I am suddendly reminded of her and it's back to square 1.

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25 Mar 2011, 7:33 pm

MXH wrote:

Massive amounts of crack?

I'm kidding. It's not the answer you want, but... time. That's about the only way sometimes, is to just let time pass by and the feelings will subside.

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25 Mar 2011, 8:10 pm

mra1200 wrote:

MXH wrote:

Massive amounts of crack?

I'm kidding. It's not the answer you want, but... time. That's about the only way sometimes, is to just let time pass by and the feelings will subside.

I thought time would heal. But 4 months later its just as bad, which is why I resorted to asking for help.

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25 Mar 2011, 8:16 pm

It took me almost 3 years to get over a woman I dated for 6 months.it doesn't have to take that long, but there is no set length of time.

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27 Mar 2011, 5:41 am

mra1200 wrote:

That's an ignorant view of things.

OP, I had a long distance relationship with a girl for three months and I fell in love with her. I suggest you do the same. You can make plans to meet up at some point and you can still have an emotional connection while you're ages away from each other. Love knows no distance.

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27 Mar 2011, 7:28 pm

Asp-Z wrote:

mra1200 wrote:

Thanks for replying. But I do know it is a lost cause, theres no reason to follow it and I just want it out of my head so maybe I can go back to my "depressed" self and not my "lonely depressed" condition right now. Anyhow I couldnt do the whole long distance online thing. I dont feel any connection that way.

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10 Apr 2011, 1:47 pm

Shameless bump but this now happened.

Red is the bro, she is blue, orange is the bros ex and im green.

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