i miss her so darn much

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As a guy, I feel like you don't even know you're in love until she's gone. One blowup on my side over our first miscommunication and I lose her.

Be nice to your girlfriend, guys. You don't want to end up like this where you dump her and regret it later but she has too much pride to take you back because this is the second time you've dumped her. I killed a great thing and turned my back on a close friend. I'm feeling awful and she's not willing to hear it. I was pretty much the only one using emotional violence in that relationship.

When they behave like they love you, the truth is that they do. You can't fake that stuff. I'm going to finally take my next relationship seriously and not see it as simply a power play.

Bahh . There are times I wish I was a normal guy and didn't have emotions for girls.

what girlfriend?

My aspie bf had a bad ending with his ex. I think maube he's still hurt but she isn't nice and didn't understand him. I love him and I've taken him back a few times. He kissed another girl but I forgave him. I hope we continue staying good because I want to marry him.

I wish my now ex was that forgiving.

Toad, there's somebody for everyone out there.

f*ck everything. i feel dead inside.

seriously, i wish i could just ignore this and be happy. in another place and time, i wouldn't have been so hurt by this, but right now i have no real means of meeting women because i extricated myself from my group of friends. the reason i did this is because they're overall a bad influence on my life. so now i have no real support system, i'm just isolated here being totally lonely and miserable.

OP, is this the same girl you posted about recently? If it is, I'm confused. The way you're describing the situation here is really different than your previous description. Can you help me understand?

something between these two songs:

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Okay, I looked at your earlier posts about this girl, and it seemed like the reason you broke up with her was because she was incapable of making the kind of emotional commitment to you that you needed, and that you expected of her. In one post you said that she told you that she didn't want to be "tied down" to you.

Do you think it's possible that you're romanticizing what you really had with her, because you're going through a tough time right now (both romantically and in dealing with other disappointments)? I know when you're sad and lonely, it's easy to remember anything that's not "sad and lonely" as a better experience....even to the point of remembering it as much better than it was. If you now believe that you two really did have the same goals for the relationship, then it seems like you had some significant problems communicating with each other....which may have made achieving those goals difficult, if not impossible. What do you think?

Didn't you leave her because you suspected that she was cheating on you?