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13 Apr 2011, 7:10 am

When it comes to dating it seems aspie women want what NT want- that element of intimacy is crucial to the union. I'm also really tired and drunk, so I hope this makes sense. At the same time, a lot are asexual, which makes me wonder if there is a link between AS and asexuality.

On a different key note, I'd like to date an aspie girl and see how well I match up. Maybe she'd be more understanding of my strange need for solitude? Maybe that would work against the relationship as bad as it did my other relationships?



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13 Apr 2011, 7:22 am

CaptainTrips222 wrote:
When it comes to dating it seems aspie women want what NT want- that element of intimacy is crucial to the union. I'm also really tired and drunk, so I hope this makes sense. At the same time, a lot are asexual, which makes me wonder if there is a link between AS and asexuality.

On a different key note, I'd like to date an aspie girl and see how well I match up. Maybe she'd be more understanding of my strange need for solitude? Maybe that would work against the relationship as bad as it did my other relationships?


I met one girl online with HFA who was asexual...they really didn't explain why they were...although I have no clue if that is a common thing with girls with Autism.

I'd like to meet one at least to see how they compare to NTs....I'm not judging either....as I really haven't met one before...if I had, I'd make up my mind whether they are generally better suited for me then NT girls.



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13 Apr 2011, 7:50 am

I actually know a number of them of legal age, but they don't seem high enough functioning to date. I take that back, one does, but we'd probably be better off as casual friends. Too bad I can't meet some of the girls here on WP.



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13 Apr 2011, 7:55 am

CaptainTrips222 wrote:
When it comes to dating it seems aspie women want what NT want- that element of intimacy is crucial to the union.


Well, I want that too, and I'm male and not neurotypical. The difference for me is in the amount of intimate contact... I think I can definitely get by on less, and too much will destroy me.

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At the same time, a lot are asexual, which makes me wonder if there is a link between AS and asexuality.


There does seem to be.

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On a different key note, I'd like to date an aspie girl and see how well I match up. Maybe she'd be more understanding of my strange need for solitude? Maybe that would work against the relationship as bad as it did my other relationships?


I think everyone is different. Hard to create a response to such a generalised idea.


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13 Apr 2011, 8:32 am

How do they sound like NT women?


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13 Apr 2011, 10:49 am

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How do they sound like NT women?


Nag nag nag, stop leaving your socks on the floor! :lol:

Really, I have no idea. People are people, regardless of diagnosis and every person has their own quirks. :)



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13 Apr 2011, 10:55 am

^ maybe he thought that they would sound like hairy men *Roaaaaar*.



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13 Apr 2011, 11:06 am

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^ maybe he thought that they would sound like hairy men *Roaaaaar*.


Raaaaaawr! ME WOMAN. ME HUNGRY. GET ME DINNER. :lol:



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13 Apr 2011, 11:09 am

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^ maybe he thought that they would sound like hairy men *Roaaaaar*.


Raaaaaawr! ME WOMAN. ME HUNGRY. GET ME DINNER. :lol:


OMFG, so you aspie women DO sound like rawry hairy men! 8O



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13 Apr 2011, 11:13 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
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^ maybe he thought that they would sound like hairy men *Roaaaaar*.


Raaaaaawr! ME WOMAN. ME HUNGRY. GET ME DINNER. :lol:


OMFG, I was right!! 8O


Silly Boo, I'm not NT. I'm just acting like one. *brings up shield to protect from flamers*



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13 Apr 2011, 11:15 am

Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ maybe he thought that they would sound like hairy men *Roaaaaar*.


Raaaaaawr! ME WOMAN. ME HUNGRY. GET ME DINNER. :lol:


OMFG, I was right!! 8O


Silly Boo, I'm not NT. I'm just acting like one. *brings up shield to protect from flamers*


No, I meant that you aspie women do sound like me.... I mean like hairy men. 8O

Let's roar!! !



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13 Apr 2011, 11:20 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ maybe he thought that they would sound like hairy men *Roaaaaar*.


Raaaaaawr! ME WOMAN. ME HUNGRY. GET ME DINNER. :lol:


OMFG, I was right!! 8O


Silly Boo, I'm not NT. I'm just acting like one. *brings up shield to protect from flamers*


No, I meant that you aspie women do sound like me.... I mean like hairy men. 8O

Let's roar!! !


RAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWR!

Anyway, we've seemed to have derailed the thread quite a bit. Sorry about that. >.<



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13 Apr 2011, 11:51 am

The_Face_of_Boo, I think an appropriate pic for where this conversation went is in order.


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13 Apr 2011, 12:18 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo, I think an appropriate pic for where this conversation went is in order.


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13 Apr 2011, 12:31 pm

:lol:



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13 Apr 2011, 12:47 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
How do they sound like NT women?


This confuses me too...don't they sound feminine like every woman in the world?

Other then that, there is a chance you'll find an Aspie girl who's got different interests to an NT girl that are more to a guy's wavelength...AS or NT.