Breakup With My Girlfriend Part 2 OR UPDATE

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FYI!

I was heart broken if I wasn't then I might be a physcopath, one that lacked social regard.

I was just following what Lene has defended me said. Because I don't want to be sad over my former's girlfriend decision, I knew the relationship wasn't going to last long, contrary to what people thinks that know me. I get comment like, "when are you going to get marry?" or "I noticed that you are getting an apartment. Are you going to get marry and move together there?". People stuck their head in the cloud thinking that I am a emotionally driven guy.

I valued the essence time over life versus natural selection.

Any way.... here's an UPDATE!

I was spending time at my former girlfriend's house with her, her mother, and sister. Her mother told me that the reason why she broke up with me is because I didn't give her enough attention.

Her mother, her, and sister have to take the "attention" toward someone who doesn't have a car and needs a ride. I couldn't find a spot for myself. They wouldn't reserve in the first place. Secondly, I was busy in college. It was horrible. Thirdly, I did show up at every date, but the last date she canceled on me on the account that she was sick. Lastly, she doesn't have a phone and made no effort getting on a free program for free cellphone minutes or what not.

So, yes, I am moving on because it is obvious that she can't handle being alone when I am doing something important for my life while being the nicest guy that she can have that she just broke up.

I am still going to be friend but finding a new girlfriend. She dug a hole and fell in it. I am sorry, but there were better ways to handle this problem then breaking up.

In the past, I help her family with car's tires and heating. So, I am no jerk.

I found a girl that I liked way back and trying to get information about her before asking out.

Surely being sick is a legitimate reason to call off a date? If she is sick then she won't be pleasant to be around, and she probably won't enjoy your company as much as she otherwise would. It wouldn't be fair on either of you, really.


Your girlfriend didn't tell you this herself?

No, she didn't and didn't want to admit breaking up.

The more I think about it, the more I think she surrounded herself with depression then commit a relationship suicide. She have heart problem, and her mother can't find medical record or help that she needed.

It is either way selfish for her to break up when impossible is the true reality. People tends to get busy. College was rough for this semester and has taken toll on my learning, feeling a bit brain strain.