For those girls without boyfriends do you fantasize?

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Do you imagine how having a boyfriend would be like? From friends Facebook posts and even my family. In my case what I don't want my BF to be like (my step dad) and what I kind of would be ok with (my brother in-law). Both men have good & bad qualities I'd want in a man. I liked Twilight and I know fiction is fiction but still I hope and wish for a loving relationship and imagine it. I guess that's kind of crazy huh? LOL!

When I was your age, yes. I've had a few bf's since then and ended up with the complete opposite of my desires. But, guess what? Our personalities are perfect for each other! There is hope for a loving relationship! But as for Twilight, I avoid that like the plague...
*edit* Turns out what I wanted actually makes a good friend. It's interesting how life turns out.

what sort of boyfirend do I fantasise about? Tall, big and muscular, bearded, tanned, likes beer and art and poetry, plays guitar, slightly nerdy, and likes me for me.....hmmm...I'll be looking for a long time!

Not in the ways mentioned here so far, no. I do sometimes fantasize about physical contact and proximity, however (and I don't just mean daydreaming about sex to any of you who might instantly assume such ). On rare occasion I fantasize about having someone to do things with as well.

I don't think it's crazy at all, it's the stuff dreams are made of. When I was a teenager, yes I would wonder and dream about what my girlfriend or boyfriend would be like. They always had different rolls, one would be for sex and the other for love.

But at that time in my life, I really had no idea what type of person I really wanted to be with. I thought I knew but I didn't. So I dreamed about being with the wrong person or people.

Now, I know what type of person or people I would like to be with but I'm not in the mood to be with anyone at the moment and I dream of other things.

Yeah I do.

If you girls don't have boyfriends you can fantasise about me.

I am 25 years old, classically hansom, and rich.
I have a PhD in Astrophysics and a black belt in karate.
I like to fly my own private jet when I take my friends to my villa in the south of France.

(Whoops, sorry. That is MY fantasy)

Sorry, zeldapsychology, but Edward Cullen is taken. By yours truly. In fact, he's stretched out in bed humming my lullaby.

He said I should introduce you to one of the were-boys and maybe imprinting will take place.


Signed,
Bella

I like pretty, lean, feminine, sensitive, yet nerdy guys. The chance of finding a straight boy like that is very low D:

I never talked to anyone about it before but I kinda assumed everyone does
Just now I did talk to my closest friend (she's NT) and apparently my assumptions were wrong. Oops...
Anyway... I do More like Kaybee tho. I don't fantasize about certain characteristics but more about proximity, connection, company

I fantasise about things that are associated with romance....

Otherwise, unless I've actually fallen for someone, I don't think about it that much. If someone comes along, great, but I'm not lonely.

LOL! Cute! My fantasy is someone to hug up on. I've never experienced a kiss so having that sensation seems interesting. Basically I imagine cuddling.

I hate to sound creepy but I fantasize at night in my bed about what it would be like to be sleeping with my perfect guy. Stroking his hair, skin, kissing him and everything nice

WTG Wombat - making best use of a golden opportunity! (lots of girls find humor endearing!)

That's not creepy at all! I do it, too, and since I'm the authority on non-creepy things, when I say it's not, it's not. Besides, I'm old enough to be your mother, so my pearl of wisdom counts.

Aren't there any Goths or Emos where you live?