Date went well...

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Went out on a first date and it went really well, although she was better looking in the photo's she wasn't too bad but we had a great time. I kissed her twice at the end of the day and she well kissed me

What next though?, do i wait for her to call,text me do i call her later. It's been years since i've been on a date and went out with a girl so i need relearning lol

Congrats! Nice to hear something positive.

If you like her, I'd say wait a few days, then give her a call. Maybe if you can give a little background (ie. how well you know her/how long you've know her, how you met, etc.), then people might be able to give better advice about where to go from here.

I was on a dating site and i got a message to contact her via FB, probably because it was a payed dating site.. So i did, then we spent two days or so talking on FB after that it was mobile text. I did try to call her but didn't have much luck, however i spoke to her on the phone as i was on the way. Wet met and at first i was a little doubtful because she came across that she didn't really want to do anything, but that turned into arcades,ice cream sitting on the beach, in the cafe having a laugh. So she opened up, she was probably holding herself back. At the end of the date she took me to my car and i gave her a smooth kiss on the lips, then a second one she didn't pull away. She smiled and i said i had a great and would love/like to see her again.

I got home and texted her that i had a great time basically it was nice to see her xxx. She replied she did too

That was that

Good job, sir.

you smooth sailor

Seems like you don't need any tips from us, you did good.

Thankyou both!, i guess if the date doesn't work out don't think to yourself what you could've done to make it better, if the time is right and the compatiblity is there then it will flow!


Would you guys/girls think it bad of me to call tomorrow and arrange another date for next week?

I don't think it's bad.

Having said that, I am probably not the best person to give dating advice. I'm like Marianne from Sense and Sensibility. If I really like someone, I'm enthusiastic and optimistic about the possibilities and would want to see the other person again right away. I can't adhere to the 2-day, 3-day, 5-day, 1-week or whatever rule.

Good luck! I hope it works out for you for it seems like it's been a long time coming.

Good for you, I hope she'll see you again!

'Wait a day and then text' is the 'rule'. If you don't want to bother with that and are looking for a non-fakey relationship, text the next day

I don't see anything wrong with your plan. Good luck! (and for gods sake, don't tell her she looked better in the photos- say the opposite in fact! )

People tend to choose their very best photos to put on dating sites.

Yeah, and usually from a few years ago too, but everyone wants to be told they look prettier in the flesh

I do. I mean, they do.

Do the unaspie thing here. Don't be brutally honest for once.

congratz mate, Thats what I like to hear!

She didn't answer the phone yesterday, came on this morning and she was on facebook .. she didn't say hi, i rang her mobile and she didn't answer again i ring no answer. So i said " you can answer your phone, i won't bite promise ". She said " Sorry it's up stairs on charge "

So i rang again, 5mins later

No answer and then into answer machine!

Sorry but if i was interested in a date i would've gone up stairs to get the phone or wait for the call, she shouldn't be nervous about hearing my voice because we've talked in person and kissed. I personally seem more keen than she does, not looking good

Hmm... I wouldn't look into it too much. Try to think of other things so if she is not interested it will be easier to cope with.