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jamesdunno
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01 May 2011, 10:30 am

5 months ago by ex cheated on me with this guy that became her boyfriend. She cheated on facebook always texting him and calling him while still being with me. Now my ex texting me when she feels like and texting me stuff like when we were together? the only thing is she told me she finished her current boyfriend the one she cheated on me with, now she doesnt text me everyday but when she does text me its like old times. then she sends me a friend request on facebook. i asked her a few questions when she text me such as 'was it a mistake leaving me' and i got 'i think so' as an answer and she also told me that id never be just a boy to her. what is she trying to say?
i text her today and got no reply. she only texts and replies when she wants to. i also actually doubt she dumped her boyfriend as when i asked what happened she said she cant explain it.
why has she come back into my life when i was getting over her. Our relationship was 18 months long. but now when she texts i still feel pain inside. Throughout her realtionship with this other guy every two weeks she would text me asking was i over her yet and had i found someone new it was like she didnt want me to ever get over her. But now i dont know her motives for texting me back and forth like old times one day then not texting back. I started to doubt she did dump her boyfriend as she was so into him. :cry:



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01 May 2011, 12:31 pm

IMO, she's come back into your life because it suits her. Unfortunately, her behavior has defined her as the kind of person who wants to have her next relationship lined up before she ends the one she's in. Maybe her current relationship has hit a rough spot and she wants some attention from you, maybe she just doesn't want you to move on. Whatever the reason, she's not concerned with you and what's best for you. Take care of yourself - walk away.


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01 May 2011, 2:10 pm

Girls sometimes live in the moment. Its sort of like a roller coaster. But if her words make no sense then you should only listen to her actions.

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