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07 May 2011, 7:54 pm

There's this girl I've known and talked to a little bit at my school for about a month but we never really had a one on one, but I've always been able to make her laugh, and then yesterday me and her went to DC to pick up my friend and get some food from his restaurant and I made her laugh a whole bunch of times in the cafeteria while she was charging her phone before we left.

Then when we went and got the food, a handicapped guy in the restaurant who I'd never seen before asked me how his favorite couple was doing(implying me and her were a couple) and I said good and asked him how he was doing, I'm not sure if she noticed what he said though, because she didn't say anything, but I didn't tell the man we weren't a couple.

After that we got back in the car and shared some of our food with each other, and I made her laugh a few more times before we got back to the school. And every time I was making her laugh, I was making her laugh HARD too, like build a six-pack hard.

After we left school I drove with her and 5 other people in my car and she was sitting in the front middle seat right next to me and it was kind of cramped so I had to put my hand along the back of the seat behind her most of the time while I was driving and she didn't seem bothered by it, and then we got to the place we were going(College Park) to look for parties and we talked a little bit every now and then and shared a cigarette and then she got tired and was leaning on me a little bit on the way back, and then at first she asked our friend on the right if she could fall asleep on his shoulder but then she switched positions to fall asleep on my upper arm(not necessarily my shoulder) and a lot of her upper body was leaning against the side of mine and she slept there for a good while.

She didn't do anything that was outright flirty toward me other than that, except she would touch me almost always when she laughed, even if it wasn't my joke. Does it sound like she likes me though?



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07 May 2011, 8:44 pm

If you made her laugh that much, then chances are she likes you a lot. In what way? Really hard to know...



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07 May 2011, 8:55 pm

j5689 wrote:
There's this girl I've known and talked to a little bit at my school for about a month but we never really had a one on one, but I've always been able to make her laugh, and then yesterday me and her went to DC to pick up my friend and get some food from his restaurant and I made her laugh a whole bunch of times in the cafeteria while she was charging her phone before we left.

Then when we went and got the food, a handicapped guy in the restaurant who I'd never seen before asked me how his favorite couple was doing(implying me and her were a couple) and I said good and asked him how he was doing, I'm not sure if she noticed what he said though, because she didn't say anything, but I didn't tell the man we weren't a couple.

After that we got back in the car and shared some of our food with each other, and I made her laugh a few more times before we got back to the school. And every time I was making her laugh, I was making her laugh HARD too, like build a six-pack hard.

After we left school I drove with her and 5 other people in my car and she was sitting in the front middle seat right next to me and it was kind of cramped so I had to put my hand along the back of the seat behind her most of the time while I was driving and she didn't seem bothered by it, and then we got to the place we were going(College Park) to look for parties and we talked a little bit every now and then and shared a cigarette and then she got tired and was leaning on me a little bit on the way back, and then at first she asked our friend on the right if she could fall asleep on his shoulder but then she switched positions to fall asleep on my upper arm(not necessarily my shoulder) and a lot of her upper body was leaning against the side of mine and she slept there for a good while.

She didn't do anything that was outright flirty toward me other than that, except she would touch me almost always when she laughed, even if it wasn't my joke. Does it sound like she likes me though?


I'd say, yes, it's very likely that she likes you.



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07 May 2011, 11:54 pm

I would say yes.

But where to go from here I couldn't tell you... :(

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08 May 2011, 1:45 am

Daryl_Blonder wrote:
I would say yes.

But where to go from here I couldn't tell you... :(

Easy ... if he likes her, he should ask her on a date! If she likes him, she'll say yes. It sounds like they already get along well and have fun together - calling it dating would just make it "official".

And if she doesn't want to date, he'll still have a great friend.


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08 May 2011, 6:03 am

Ask her or we'll gather an angry mob hehe :D


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09 May 2011, 6:54 pm

Thinking about doing it after I get some money this weekend because I am flat broke right now.

I'll have to see how she acts toward me though next time I see her at school, hopefully it's just as good as before if not better. I'm just a little displeased that I'm aware of it now, because that usually causes me to mess up by overthinking and then I get sick to my stomach with myself for messing it up again that way. I can still see this going well though, she's not weird like other girls, she would tell a person nicely if she wasn't interested.

But I was thinking about it some more last night and there were other signs as well, like how she seemed really bummed out when she misunderstood that I was saying I wanted her to sit in the front middle seat(the seat in the middle in the front row) because she thought I wanted her to sit in the back and she also seemed really pissed when her dad wouldn't let her come with us the day before. But it could just be coincidence.



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09 May 2011, 8:46 pm

Ask her out. You have the perfect opportunity to set up a first date.



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10 May 2011, 6:27 am

You're in, I'm 99% certain of that.



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10 May 2011, 7:24 am

ToughDiamond wrote:
You're in, I'm 99% certain of that.

i'm 99.5% certain. :P

seriously, OP... she is very much into you. good work making her laugh!

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11 May 2011, 3:10 pm

Haven't seen her this whole week, I hope some sort of invisible NT interest countdown timer that I'm unaware of isn't going with all this but I can't help but feel like it is. I don't want to do it over FB, that looks bad and impersonal communication makes it too easy to say no.

I'm still feeling very good lately for some reason, oddly enough



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11 May 2011, 6:00 pm

She'll probably stab you in the back.


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12 May 2011, 4:44 am

j5689 wrote:
Haven't seen her this whole week, I hope some sort of invisible NT interest countdown timer that I'm unaware of isn't going with all this but I can't help but feel like it is. I don't want to do it over FB, that looks bad and impersonal communication makes it too easy to say no.

I'm still feeling very good lately for some reason, oddly enough


You're naturally going to be scared that she'll find somebody else while you're away. It's always a risk until a relationship is defined, but a few days isn't really all that risky, unless she's rather fickle, in which case she might prove a liability in a relationship.

I expect you're feeling good because somewhere deepdown you know you're in the running.

I'd be sorely tempted to get in touch with her if I were you, even if it's only Facebook - a phone call would be better - it would be a shame if she began to think that she wasn't in your thoughts any more....I often find it really hard to gauge how often to pester a woman, and I like to err on the side of being a little bit forward and cheeky. You can soon readjust if she seems to feel invaded, and at least that way you know she won't think you don't care about her.