j5689 wrote:
Haven't seen her this whole week, I hope some sort of invisible NT interest countdown timer that I'm unaware of isn't going with all this but I can't help but feel like it is. I don't want to do it over FB, that looks bad and impersonal communication makes it too easy to say no.
I'm still feeling very good lately for some reason, oddly enough
You're naturally going to be scared that she'll find somebody else while you're away. It's always a risk until a relationship is defined, but a few days isn't really all that risky, unless she's rather fickle, in which case she might prove a liability in a relationship.
I expect you're feeling good because somewhere deepdown you know you're in the running.
I'd be sorely tempted to get in touch with her if I were you, even if it's only Facebook - a phone call would be better - it would be a shame if she began to think that she wasn't in your thoughts any more....I often find it really hard to gauge how often to pester a woman, and I like to err on the side of being a little bit forward and cheeky. You can soon readjust if she seems to feel invaded, and at least that way you know she won't think you don't care about her.