A quite normal but exciting situation.

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alexfromnorway
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23 May 2011, 3:31 am

There is a girl who is sitting just next to me on the row behind in school. When I look at her she always smiles back and when she looks at me I have to smile back. My classmates has told me that she thinks that I'm super handsome and cool and blahblah but she is too shy to make contact. I did not think too much about it, I thought it was just rumours. But today, we had a social studies class when she walked up to me. She started smiling and laughing and tickling me in my neck and on the back of my head. She laughed and asked me, and showed me her computer and said: "Is this how you spell "society"? ("societie") No, it's an Y instead of ie at the end. I asked "I thought you knew it!?" and started laughing. She said. "I knew it, I was just going to test you, you smart and handsome boy". I laughed and replied "Oh you cute girl". She laughed back and has now been sitting the whole school day and giggling whenever I look at her. I am really attracted to her and I suppose she is too.

What should I do now to make this go even further????



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23 May 2011, 7:55 am

First of all, this only applies if there's some type of a place to hang out (sit and talk) within walking distance of your school. One day after class, ask her if she wants to come with you to go eat at that place. Go there with her and see what happens. If you're not very popular at your school, make sure it's not a place where most other students go; safety reasons. If you're not sure you'll be able to come up with fun things to say, invite her to a movie instead. Go see Bridesmaids if it's already out in Norway; it's fun for girls, and it has guy humor too.



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23 May 2011, 8:29 am

Aspie1 wrote:
First of all, this only applies if there's some type of a place to hang out (sit and talk) within walking distance of your school. One day after class, ask her if she wants to come with you to go eat at that place. Go there with her and see what happens. If you're not very popular at your school, make sure it's not a place where most other students go; safety reasons. If you're not sure you'll be able to come up with fun things to say, invite her to a movie instead. Go see Bridesmaids if it's already out in Norway; it's fun for girls, and it has guy humor too.


Aspie 1 gave you VERY good advice (especially about safety) but don't see Bridesmaids. A clean cartoon or a disney show is better for a first date...even if you're 21. A first date should always be as light as possible. DO NOT make out with her on that first date. Save the Bridesmaids movie for a second or third date. Don't touch her! Let her attack "you".