I was used...

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As a rebound for a girl i really liked, it hurts...

That would hurt. I am sorry you experienced that. You deserve to be cherished.

[quote="emilieTomorrow"]That would hurt. I am sorry you experienced that. You deserve to be cherished.[/quo]she was my first too... I felt kind of attached.. Shes back with her old boyfriend.. she hates me now.. Her boy friend is someone that has always gone out of his way to belittle me and others i don't see the attraction...

Yes, I can see how that is hurtful. The only condolence that I can offer is that I don't think when people are young, they really haven't figure out what they want. That doesn't excuse her behavior, or his. I'm just saying that a whole lot of immature behavior happens for no apparent reason -- and then most people grow out of it.

Trust me, any girl who dates with and sleeps with a guy her ex-boyfriend doesn't like, just to get back at the ex-boyfriend is going to have a lot of problems in life. What she did was wrong. I know what she did was very hurtful but try to keep in mind that you are the better person here.

Wow. What a b***h.

Edit: never mind...question clarified.

Sorry to hear that - getting used is the worst - especially when you realize the other person didn't actually have any feelings for you in the first place, but only used as a tool for their own selfish purposes. Few things are more dehumanizing.

Anyway, hope you feel better soon - time heals better than anything...

Im really really sorry to hear this... people who do this make me so passionately pi$$3d off.. why? because i had a friend who used a girl as a rebound (he told me person to person and assured me he jsut had to tell someone because he knew it was wrong)

he then CHEATED on her 3 times over about a month... and this girl was just as good of a friend... so i told the girl because my conscience was getting the better of me knowing about it... and the my friend who was using her went psycho at me and told pretty much every one of the few friends i have that i was a lying and that im a backstabber... and everyone believed him thinking i must be truely evil to make up such a story... now ive lost most of my only friends because of it...

So Sextaesada... you have my sympathy... you deserve much better...

I am sorry to hear this sextaesda. I know how it feels.

*Awkward aspie hug*

its been about a month or two..I had a nice friend who pretty much threw booze at me, after seeing me melt down in class and slam my head on the metal table as hard I could...I pretty broke into tears when I saw her back with her boy friend, it didn't seem right..right after the break up I pretty smoked until I just laughed
thanks guys, I love hugs
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