How big of a deal breaker would this be?

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23 May 2011, 9:37 am

If you walked weirdly with an odd gait how much of a big deal breaker would that be in the dating world? Obviously if you date someone who walked 'weird' you would probably feel embarresed to be seen with them in public and also it might make a very negetive first impression becuase even if your persoanality is kinda normal they might make a negetive pre judgment before they even speak to you.

so would walking oddly be a complete deal breaker? I am guessing it would be?

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23 May 2011, 10:07 am

I take the whole person into consideration, and that wouldn't bug me particularly. That said, I probably have some things that would annoy me that other people would find shallow, and I've spent a lot of time working for and socializing with people with disabilities.

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23 May 2011, 10:25 am

No. But I'm mid-thrities, I'm guessing a girl your age might me inmature enough to care about such thing, but maybe not. I wasn't when I was that age, but don't think that helps.

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23 May 2011, 11:26 am

Both my husband and I walk strangely. So it's not a deal breaker for me.

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23 May 2011, 1:06 pm

It wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me at all. (I find that sort of awkwardness kinda cute, actually.)

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23 May 2011, 2:10 pm

Nope wouldn't be for me, chances are when you're dating someone you look past their walk because you're attracted to them, hey you might even like their walk.

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23 May 2011, 2:29 pm

I don't even notice how someone walks.

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23 May 2011, 2:37 pm

If i noticed it, it wouldn't bother me at all.

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23 May 2011, 6:09 pm

For the cliché: It shouldn't be a deal-breaker, and if it is the person is too immature and she's not worth the trouble

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23 May 2011, 9:37 pm

That wouldn`t be a deal breaker for me either. I kind of have an odd gait too, and I am hoping if someone doesn`t like me it is for something far more important than that!

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23 May 2011, 9:38 pm

OhNowIGetIt wrote:

No. But I'm mid-thrities, I'm guessing a girl your age might me inmature enough to care about such thing, but maybe not. I wasn't when I was that age, but don't think that helps.

I agree with this. I'm 20 and it probably wouldn't bother me, but that's just me.

I was with a guy with a somewhat awkward gait (I'm pretty sure he's an aspie), and it didn't bother me.

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23 May 2011, 10:04 pm

Jonsi wrote:

I don't even notice how someone walks.

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23 May 2011, 10:14 pm

Jamesy wrote:

If you walked weirdly with an odd gait how much of a big deal breaker would that be in the dating world? Obviously if you date someone who walked 'weird' you would probably feel embarrassed to be seen with them in public and also it might make a very negative first impression because even if your personality is kinda normal they might make a negative pre judgment before they even speak to you.

so would walking oddly be a complete deal breaker? I am guessing it would be?

I once dated a girl who had cerebral palsy. Her gait was awkward and jerky at times, but she was a lot of fun to be with, and I wasn't embarrassed to be seen with her in public.

No, it wasn't a deal-breaker at all.

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23 May 2011, 10:45 pm

Not a deal breaker.

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23 May 2011, 10:51 pm

No. I'm interested in a guy who walks with a small limp and it doesn't bother me at all as I'm distracted by how charismatic he is. Physical disabillity means little to those with a lovely personality, which I'm sure you have as well OP.

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23 May 2011, 11:41 pm

My primary turn-ons have always been stimming and an odd gait.

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