For those who have been a target of a PUA (pick-up arse)

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05 Jun 2011, 4:19 pm

What did you find attractive about them?

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05 Jun 2011, 4:20 pm

I just found them attractive in general. That was the big shame really. If they had just been honest I would have probably gone out with them anyway. Now I feel nothing but anger when I think of them.

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05 Jun 2011, 4:24 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What did you find attractive about them?

They were female.

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05 Jun 2011, 5:45 pm

zen_mistress wrote:

Can you be more specific? Squeeze your brain and memories a bit more...

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05 Jun 2011, 5:47 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What did you find attractive about them?

They were female.

So you find your grandma attractive? Interesting.

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05 Jun 2011, 5:52 pm

What I found attractive more than anything, was knowing that there was no strings attached with them.

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05 Jun 2011, 5:53 pm

zen_mistress wrote:

Same. I felt magnetized by this charisma and to find out that it was a sham just to pick up chicks and that I was just another girl to them hurt a lot. In short, pick-up arses can go straight to hell. :/

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05 Jun 2011, 5:57 pm

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What I found attractive more than anything, was knowing that there was no strings attached with them.

aha, the first useful reply here. Good job, Miss bee.

C'mon people, the thread isn't about your feelings and how hurt you were but about what did you find attractive in them.

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05 Jun 2011, 7:28 pm

What's a pick up arse?

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05 Jun 2011, 7:30 pm

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What's a pick up arse?

A derogatory term for a pick up artist.

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05 Jun 2011, 7:30 pm

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What's a pick up arse?

It's an arse you park your truck in.

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05 Jun 2011, 7:33 pm

Erisad wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

What's a pick up arse?

A derogatory term for a pick up artist.

I don't really know what that is either.

But to answer the question - Nothing. The only time I ever went anywhere with one was because I was too awkward to say no and it turned out to be one of the worst experiences of my life. I didn't even like them.

I can't stand them and always just ignore them or make up some lie.

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05 Jun 2011, 7:37 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Erisad wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

What's a pick up arse?

A derogatory term for a pick up artist.

I don't really know what that is either.

But to answer the question - Nothing. The only time I ever went anywhere with one was because I was too awkward to say no and it turned out to be one of the worst experiences of my life. I didn't even like them.

I can't stand them and always just ignore them or make up some lie.

Sometimes that's the best thing to do.

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05 Jun 2011, 9:10 pm

My Pick Up Arse (once upon a time) was really cute. He looked like Noah Wyle from ER. As I said in the Pick Up Artist thread, I would've had a one-night-stand with him willingly because I wanted to sleep with him, but it was all his deception about it not being a one-night-stand that was so scummy.

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05 Jun 2011, 9:22 pm

There is a difference between being a target and a victim.

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05 Jun 2011, 9:27 pm

TheygoMew wrote:

There is a difference between being a target and a victim.

Yes, the target is the one a PUA aims for. The victim is one a PUA gets. All victims were targets. Not all targets are victims.

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