Casual Sex

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I have this friend who's coming over next week. I'm attracted to her but I don't want a relationship with her. She does it with lots of other guys. She's into casual sex but I don't know how to propisition it. 

Like, do I just say "let's have sex"? Do I start making out with her? 

Should use verbal or nonverbal communication?

I wouldn't say "Let's have sex."
Body language and eyes all the way.

She told me she gets really turned on when guys bite her the neck. Would it be weird if I did that out of the blue?

Who knows?
You know her, I don't.

I would have thought biting would come when you're more in a coupling position.
Biting her on the neck out of the blue seems a bit cold.
A large turn on for women is the build up to sex.
Maybe you could do the whole eyes on the neck and a slight licking or bite of your lip.
Send the mental picture that you want to bite her.
See how she reacts.

A skill I have to work on.

DON'T bite her on the neck out of the clear blue sky. Really, buddy, don't do that!

Hang out with her. Talk to her about things. Compliment her. If she compliments you, and starts caressing your hands our something, then I would start caressing her, too.

Don't bite her on the neck until you've been kissing a while.

I won't lol

Really I just need to know how to transition from platonic couchsitting to making out.

By complimenting her on her pretty eyes. Women like that.

Sit close and angle your body very slightly towards her.
Let your knee gently touch hers.
Look at her lips as well as her eyes when you speak to her.
Let your gaze linger.
(Not too much, you're not a creep!)
Run your hand along your thigh so your knuckles gently brush her thigh.
Comment on her clothing or hair and briefly touch them.
Playfully put your head on her shoulder for a second.
Play footsies.
(Always gauging her reaction, of course)
It's instinct, really.
See what she welcomes.
If she seems uncomfortable, back off.

Did you know I'm hearing impaired and I lipread?
My lipgazing has often been interpreted as sexual interest.
People interpret that as "I want to kiss you."
I didn't realise that until the nth person made a move on me.
Gah!!
Useful tip: if you would like someone to kiss you, look at their lips.

Before anything, tell her to show you recent blood test results and use a double condoms.

A bee keeper suit wouldn't be a bad idea either.

^ great idea.

Going in for the honey.

It's the "She does it with lots of other guys" that turns me icky really.

Look, no promiscuous male can compete with an over-promiscuous female, the latter can have a daily steady supply.

I do what others may call "casual sex" but my previous casual relationships were more like temporary mongamous relationships, and the girls I had sex with weren't that easy in giving real sex (easy in talking with about sex but not to actually doing it). And I could tell they didn't have it for a long time.

We will practice safe sex

Why didn't people tell me stuff like that before? Like years ago. No wonder some of my earlier dates went nowhere. No wonder that other girl said she thought I didn't like her.

If I knew all the things that normal people knew about dating I could have started at a normal age.

They could have included that in sex ed instead of putting a banana on a condom and telling us the names of all the private parts in latin. Seriously, sex ed should include dating advice.

Joking aside! ..I say lay the ground work and if she's interested in you she will cosy up. Take it from there.