J-P wrote:
You don't see,my short is black. The haircut is my normal haircut...i have to go see barber soon. Also i't not my style to go at club or bar. I'm a geek guy. For me bar and club are streetgang,crime biker and mafia place. many get attacked at theses places. Thank for the good luck. I really need that.
It is true that there is a higher percentage of mafia here. but to be honist I dont bump in to them in bars really. there are some hard personalities but just stay away from them. people at bars are usually in a good mood and if anything they are there to make friends,
Going to a bar in Montreal has the benefit of being able to play the VLY video lottery terminals. this is good cause it is perfectly normal to go alone to play these machines. (the smaller bars are the best) not clubs!
Also since most people on the machines are so in to it they are very easy to deal with.
if they start to talk you can respond and go back to your game.. so its like you cna take breaks when ever you want, and then say some thing randomly at any time... its the idea of being with some one and not having to worry about the awkward silence which they hate. Also cofee shops are good just bring a laptop or book and have something to do.
walking down the street in montreal is also good.
these are semi social (actually most would consider anti social) but if you find you are in the house too much doing one of these makes you feel like you socialized some how. Dont expect to make friends in these situations besides the bar. playing machines for a couple of days will surely give you some on to talk to. And it will probably be some one talkative but a bit different, which is good cause they have other issues in there life that make it hard for them to fit in.
just gambling on its own is an issue that probably effect them and hinder there life negatively. so they will be a bi more patient. chances of hot girl siting next to you ... .0007%
unless at a stirp club where it would be the inverse of that lol. and again many of them probably have issues them selves. some are just looking for a place to sit to get away from NT's