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16 Jun 2011, 3:32 pm

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

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16 Jun 2011, 3:37 pm

Happens to me sometimes. But then you dont need a whole bunch of people saying you are their type, you only need the special select few.

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16 Jun 2011, 3:43 pm

Happen to me all the time just b/c they all want people who enjoy physical closeness :lol: .

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16 Jun 2011, 3:46 pm

Yup. It sucks. Oh well.

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16 Jun 2011, 3:49 pm

It is probably a social way of saying "no". Probably it was being done first by body language like ten times and missed completely...

I hate these things. For some reasons I have a magic talent for liking girls who do not like me or already have a friend...
Or who see me as good to talk to and seek a completely different type for a relation.

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16 Jun 2011, 3:52 pm

I agree.

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16 Jun 2011, 3:57 pm

I hate it when I'm with someone I like and they make it a point to ogle some hot alpha guy they see - it's a borderline insult...

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16 Jun 2011, 4:19 pm

not at all.
I don't see the majority as "my type" anyway

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16 Jun 2011, 4:54 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

I'm not most peoples' type and I wouldn't want to be with someone who's type I'm not.

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16 Jun 2011, 4:58 pm

Chronos wrote:

OneStepBeyond wrote:

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

I'm not most peoples' type and I wouldn't want to be with someone who's type I'm not.

so you don't get disappointed when you start liking someone and then find out you don't fit the bill?

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16 Jun 2011, 5:05 pm

Never had that happen. I guess because having it happen involves talking to someone.

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16 Jun 2011, 5:05 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

I hate it when I meet all their requirements & they turn me down in favor of guys who don't meet any of em

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16 Jun 2011, 5:08 pm

nick007 wrote:

OneStepBeyond wrote:

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

I hate it when I meet all their requirements & they turn me down in favor of guys who don't meet any of em

interesting flip of events

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16 Jun 2011, 5:08 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

Use to but then got use to it. I think for me it's a little easy being someone completely outside the "ideal" box. I don't have it in my head that I can compete with this image like most women do..or guys.

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16 Jun 2011, 5:09 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

Yeah.

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16 Jun 2011, 5:14 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:

someone you like describes their ideal partner or their 'type', and it's everything but you

Not really. Most people don't have a clue what it is they want. My reaction to this scenario has always been to smirk and change the subject.

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