I am not sure what to do.

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I met this girl who is really pretty, shy and doesn't make a lot of eye contact. I was interested in her because she was a little like me. I talked to her about stuff and I was comfortable with her, it was the first time I have talked to a girl and not felt awkward. I told her I had aspergers, and I talked about sex and she was okay with me talking about it as a joke. But I didn't know how to ask her out or anything because I was too afraid. she's going on a foreign exchange and won't be at school next year so I feel like I should make a move. IDK whether I'm asking for advice or sympathy or just putting this out there.

Hi there,

I don't know how much time you have left until she leaves for the foreign exchange. So if there's still some time left I would try to talk at least once or if you can twice a week with her. Don't talk that often about sex, that can give the impression you are only interested on that. If you like her you should step up to her; you said she is shy so I don't think she would do the next step.

After a while you should invite her to have a coke together or maybe invite her to the cinema if you dare. Cinema is a great thing, you have not to talk that much there because of the movie. But you can try to hold her hand there, that means if her hand is available for you you can try to put your hand on hers. Just try to be yourself, if she likes you she will like you for the way you are so there's no need to be an actor and play a role for what you're not.

Females love it if someone is interested on what they think. You can ask her about her hobbies, her favorite music or what food she prefers. Maybe you both find a mutual hobby or topic to talk about.

I hope things will work for you both and after a while you can tell her that you like her I think that you felt comfortable is a good sign. Take the chance, you never know how it turned out if you won't dare. I wish you good luck and remember in the moment you don't dare that you get nowhere if you won't try but you will regret it. You already talked once to her so it worked

Karin